Author	Thread: Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage?
Admin	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 07:06 PM I only date Christian guys, but I am having a hard time finding one who believes it is wrong to have premarital sex. I tell them that I would like to have a pure relationship with them, and they tell me that it is only "natural" to want each other sexually. Here's my question to you guys .... Are there any guys that have the same goal as me? The goal being to have a dating relationship with someone, fall in love with them, get married and then have sex? Or am I fighting a losing battle? Can't wait to hear the responses!!! Faithful2end Post Reply
Paradisio15 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 09:58 AM Ha, well, I'm not ashamed. It's just something that seems to have illicit an intensely negative reaction from those I tell. I don't view it negatively though, so I don't consider it shameful. Post Reply
GlendoraMike View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 05:00 PM :waving: Yes, men (women too) can be pigs.:angeldevil: I've heard guys tell me, "You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first!" Of course if they could order a Ferrai 458 Italia, they wouldn't think twice about the test drive first. You know what you are getting before it arrives. Same thing with marriage. Do you want to be with that person when you aren't having sex? Because the vast majority of life is stuff other than sex.:rolleyes: Once you are married, you can do the, "I like that, more please.":hearts: Our culture is preaching all the wrong stuff and look where it has gotten us. People were freaked out about getting herpies. Now they are freaked out about getting AIDS.:devil: This stuff gets spread by spin the bottle sex.:stop: Post Reply
Randy54156 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 10:22 PM In todays time...You will NeVeR find a true faithful man/woman. Look whats happening in the catholic churches. These people are suppose to be celibate. And the nunneries, Sex goes on everywhere regardless what oaths are taken. Post Reply
Paradisio15 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 14 Jan, 2010 12:11 AM I'm going to disagree with you Randy, even if the numbers are low, never is far too big of a word. Post Reply
garyalbert View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 16 Jan, 2010 06:51 PM Dear Sister In Christ, Keep believing what your heart tells you is Truth. Do not settle for those who try to tell you, or try to intice you ,into their bed before marriage. A man who leads you to his bed outside of marriage is not a man of God. He is a man who is wrongfully causing you to Sin against yourself, and most assuredly against a Holy and Righteous God ,who loves you and wants you to have a true man of God ,to bless you , honor you, and give you a wonderful relationship In the way God intended you to have. You are a "Pearl of Great Price". Keep shining brightly and that man who seeks the Lord first, will find you. God bless you!..Gary.. Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 18 Jan, 2010 08:36 AM Hi Faithful2end, Yes, I believe a couple should believe the way you do if they call themselves Christians. I think there should be an appropriate time of dating and getting to know each other well and a commitment to marriage before even any talk of the s word. The couple should also be careful to be a good example to others as to how they conduct themselves to others and especially children as for sleeping arraignments and overnights while dating. We all would like to be blessed and it's important to get off on the right foot with the Lord. In fact, it's a big mistake not to. Anyway.... HI, my name is Brant and I currently live in the Seattle area but expect to move back to my original home area of Fort Smith , Ar this summer. I have a son Avery, 6 that I am raising alone. Hope to hear from you and that you nursing school is going well! Brant Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 25 Jan, 2010 11:12 PM I am not a guy but I would like to share a short message to every one. SEX is a gift. SEX is good. SEX is design by God. SEX is blessed by God. SEX only for the married. SEX out of the married is fornication. Ephesians 5:3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. God bless you! Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 2 Feb, 2010 07:42 PM Yes, I agree with you. However, I really, truely wonder if we are the exception other then the rule. I know people have had words to say about me not dating for a couple decades. LOL Anyway, the bottom line is, unless I can find someone that I feel is of the Lord, truely believes that "Forsaking all others" is a covenant between not only the husband and wife, but with God, then I would prefer to think of staying single. Only God can bring into one's life the one of God's own choosing. I heard again today a message about the way the servant of Abraham found the bride for his master's son. I believe in miracles. Even though I am not good looking, settling for less then the one that God has chosen, if anyone, is not an option for me. If every true Christian would pray for one another, (me included), those pitfalls will be avoided. I pray God's angels guide every mili-second, preparing the way in my spiritual life, my very being. We are all only human, yet how many are truely Christian? I am not trying to make complex matters appear trivial. God looks on the heart, not the outward appearance. Good think for me. :waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 12:57 AM Yes, some of us still believe that sex should only be within the bounds of marriage. We also take alot of heat for it. At 42, Im the oldest guy I know who is still a virgin. Its bad enough to get negative comments from people, but Ive even received bad comments from family members. One suggested I go to a homosexual nightclub. I guess he thught that men who are still virgins are actually homosexual. When I told my sister that I wanted to marry a lady who was also a virgin, she stated, "I dont think they make those anymore". Fortunately, I faith doesnt reside with them. It resides with my Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. William Post Reply
Kit1007 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 6 Mar, 2010 08:23 AM Thank you for this post...:glow: Post Reply

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