Brothers (sisters, join the party too, pls!) - how do you handle if a sister (your wife, of course) 'lacks fire' sexually? Do you automatically conclude frigidity OR do you consider that she may be lacking the true fire - the fire of your love?
This is somewhat a rhetoric - random thoughts but do share your thoughts.
Sisters, if you've experienced emotional frigidity, you know that lack of true love could result in emotional frigidity which also causes physical coldness. Sad to say, our well degraded sex culture screams at us that everything is sexual but is that really so? Lets face it, for most women, the fire starts in the heart. Regardless of how the TV paints us, we are still emotional beings who love to be loved. Why do some brothers find it so hard to get that and neglect to lay the ground work all day long, but expect to come home to a hot fire?
Now, I am not advocating that wives be prostitutes - selling sex to your husband in exchange for favors, but common, brothers, there is no microwave fireplaces (at least not yet), so why expect microwave sexual readiness?
Am I way off here? Are there women out there that are �push button� digital sexual clocks or is my thought right that most women are analog watches that need to be wound?
No offence to either the digital (jet age, huh?) or analog ones amongst us. Just how I am expressing it, but y�all get my drift, do you?
BROTHER DREAMTIME, BROTHER CATTLE AND SISTER SHUNA, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR COMMENTS. GOD BLESS YOU AND TO GOD BE THE GLORY.
I AM HAPPY THAT YOU ENJOY MY PRESENCE, I ABSOLUTELY ADORE THIS PLACE BUT I FEEL THE NEED TO KICK BACK A LITTLE.
MAYBE I COULD TOUCH SOMEONE THROUGH PRIVATE MESSAGING AS OPPOSED TO PUBLIC POSTS AND OF COURSE, AS YOU KNOW, THE POWER OF PRAYER, CAN REACH HEIGHTS THAT WE COULD HAVE NEVER IMAGINED, BUT EVEN STILL, I TOTALLY GET YOUR POINTS AND YOU ARE ALL TRULY BLESSED.
BROTHERS AND SISTERS THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE ENCOURAGEMENT AND I WILL RECONSIDER AND I APPRECIATE YOU ALL SO MUCH BUT IM GONNA SERIOUSLY SPEAK TO GOD ABOUT THIS RECONSIDERATION, UP UNTIL MY BURNING BUSH ARRIVES,LOL.
SISTER SHUNA, GREAT TO KNOW THAT YOU HAVE TWINS IN YOUR FAMILY, THE LORD IS TRULY GREAT. I PERSONALLY LOVE THE NAMES GIVEN TO NIGERIAN TWINS, NOT JUST BECAUSE I BEAR ONE BUT BECAUSE THE NAMES ARE SO UNIQUE.
IF I TALK ANY FURTHER, I WILL PROBABLY NEED A TISSUE.
THIS IS NOT A GOOD BYE, BUT A SEE YOU SOON.
MAY THE SPIRIT LEAD ME WELL AND ALL OF US, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.
I'm sitting in the bleachers with Tristan on this one. As someone whose dated a Brit And a New Yorker, lolol.. i'll just sit back and watch the sparks flyyyy ; - )
Meri hands Tristan a spiedie on a crumpet.. enjoy !
