Author	Thread: What does he really want???
Lvstigers View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 02:24 PM I met this guy through ChristianMingle. My problem is although he says he's a Christian and all the right stuff, we all know how easy it can be to deceive people via the internet. He wants to get together, we made a date to meet at a coffee shop, which he rescheduled because he 'got called in to work' that's acceptable. But there's the sexual aspect, he talks more about kissing and massages than his faith and he wants to come to my place and cook me dinner. I've told him that I want to do things God's way, which of course is through Christ, and no sex until marriage. He says he just wants to be sure we are compatible. When I said I'd rather do this safely, meaning meet in a public place, he said, something about fear and living in the box. I feel there's something fishy. Why so adamant about coming to my home? and why not take more time to get to know each other through chat etc. What's his hurry? He hasn't even asked me any questions really. What do you all think. Post Reply
LoveIsTheKey View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 30 Jun, 2010 05:08 PM HI...I see that I am coming into this discussion well after the fact...but just wanted to add my AMEN to the messages of caution already here. Just this week I had a conversation with a similar type of wolf in sheep's clothing. He tried to hard sell the idea that it is ok with the Lord for people to engage in premarital sex, and that he would not get married until he had a test drive in the bedroom, so to speak...he even went so far as to say that God approves of premarital sex because"Adam and Eve weren't married." Oh brother! Of course, I set him straight with what the WORD of God says, but he wouldn't receive it. I cut him off. Done. This type of scenario also happens to guys as well...I heard from one poor guy who has since pulled out of this website this week - he had gotten to know a woman online, they talked by phone and decided to meet - she came over to his home. He has three yound daughters, who were present when the woman showed up. This woman proceeded to talk about sexual desires - quite explicit - while the daughters were in the same room! Get to know someone in a slower pace...ask questions, listen carefully to their answers, and let them get comfortable enough to let any facade fall down. The really Godly people who truly walk with the Lord and have high morals will show themselves to be real Christ-like, God obedient, and Spirit led believers. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 18 Jul, 2010 04:24 PM Run girl, run as fast as you can...to many red flags!!!!! Post Reply
agia09 View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 3 Aug, 2010 07:26 AM A true born again Christian man will not want to do anything outside of what God intends for to do in any situation including meeting and becoming friends. I sense that his motives are inline with obeying Gods Rules for sex should always be if you are married nothing less and nothing more I would write him off real fast Post Reply
View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 23 Aug, 2010 11:30 AM stand your ground and keep Christ 1st in the whole dating thin:applause:g.i know it's not easy I am 65 and sometimes I thinkmaybe he's good enpugh after all I am no spring chicken but It is always better to wait on God and if he doesn't see it that way move on be safe. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 28 Aug, 2011 11:31 PM show him the way out of your life dear. you don't need that kind. follow what gods word tells you to do.:angel: Post Reply

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