Author	Thread: How to find the right Lady
Admin	How to find the right Lady Posted : 14 Oct, 2012 05:14 AM I am not asking a question but would like to share with you men how I found the right lady. By becoming a leader. Godly women are looking for Godly leaders that they feel safe in following. But it is not us leading and her following. It is us finding the will of God and then walking together in that. That is where unity comes from. You see the beautiful thing is we dont have to have all the answers if we find a godly woman. We just need to be humble men who are willing to pray and seek for the answers. When a woman knows a man is sucessful not just trying to find the will of God she will feel secure and confident in her man. Finding the will of God is not about action but relationship. Relationship with God comes first and action follows. Men can tend to be men of mere action and appear Godly. God is a God of relationship. Everything He says and does comes out of Gods relating with His creation. It is easier for a woman to figure this out since they are more relational then us men. Now Im not saying become a sissy. God is no sissy. God is strength combined with passion, compassion, gentleness and most important love. The ballence of strength and weakness. Being a man who leads his woman in humility. A man who leads his woman in unity. A man who cherishs genuinly his lady. How do we become such men? Know Christ and you will be such a man. Like Paul writes learn Christ. When you have learned Christ, God will bring you the lady He has waiting for you. I guarentee this to you. When you learn Christ you will have the choice pickings of the ladies here and anywhere. When you learn Christ many of the ladies you thought were so great will seem dull. Learn Christ, M Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 25 Oct, 2012 10:34 AM M, you asked: "Why not try to understand first before you throw out the thoughts i bring to this site before landbasting me about them?" What part of your thoughts do you think that I "don't understand"? Specifically, what thoughts? I think maybe you underestimate your reading audience or overestimate the profundity of your own thoughts. I believe that I have demonstrated an understanding of your thoughts by my responses. The issue is not about understanding but rather about agreement. I often simply just don't agree with the thoughts that you are advancing and more importantly, I don't believe they are Biblical. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 25 Oct, 2012 11:29 AM M, you also commented: "Just maybe I have something of value. I know I have something of value and I seek to share that with those who have ears to hear." Brother, I should make the same exhortation to you. Maybe, just maybe, I have something of value that I keep trying to share with you. Yet, you are categorically dismissive again and again. Aren't you the one that is always pointing out that nobody should try to teach you anything? You have even referred to me as a waste of your precious time. Still, you are the one accusing me of not hearing you? Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 25 Oct, 2012 05:49 PM TBN. The difference is that I havent come on a thread you started trying to undermine you. As you have here. Post Reply
treasureandtool View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 25 Oct, 2012 07:05 PM Amen! Thank you for your exhortation to the men! Women are looking for leaders who will lead them in love and humility. Christ is the perfect example. He never displayed weakness, He always displayed strength. He wasn't a "sissy" by any means, and I'm sure He didn't look like a "sissy" (He was a carpenter!). He knew how to bless others with His words and actions. Men ought to love their wives as Christ loves the Church. Words and actions display so much of your character. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 03:45 AM So we see that he has no problem with hypocrisy as long as you are the one that starts the thread! Seems reasonable.... Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 03:56 AM Thank you Treasure. Love is always done in the positive. It took me a long time to understand this. I do admit some here test me in my patience and expression of love. I still fall short of the Agape love God exmples for us and we will always fall short because we are not God. As you know .....hehe That is the beautiful thing about forgiveness. When we express forgiveness and live in the forgiveness of others we are free to continue loving. Blessings sister, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 04:09 AM Don't you laugh at it though? Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 04:54 AM "When a woman knows a man is sucessful not just trying to find the will of God she will feel secure and confident in her man." I want to bring some clarification on this comment I made in my thread opening. When i said sucessful I dont mean money or anything material. As men we tend to focus on truth only. Since we are very logical people truth makes sense to us. That is what I ment by the will of God. Simply truth only. But life is more than mere truth and if we approace women with mere truth we will fail drastically. Life is also emotion. Emotion is something that we as men are not as comfortable with. A woman who is secure with her man is because a man knows how to find the ballence of truth and emotion. Emotion is just emotion. It is neither true of false but emotion. That is why we have such difficulty figuring it out because it is always changing. We as men tend to dismiss emotion as anything real but it is very real. When a man moves from mere truth to understanding then a woman can live secure in her man. So I want to look at what understanding is. So guys here is my first question for you. What is understanding? Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 05:03 AM Some men elevate "love" and "emotion" and just completely forget truth, even though they claim to be truthful. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 05:08 AM So why dont you go off and start a thread on that. please? Expend your energies teaching men about that in your own thread. I kindly ask you to put and end to your senseless interuptions. Post Reply

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