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What do you dislike about women?
Posted : 30 Mar, 2011 04:57 PM

Okay, I'm not really one to fuel any kind of animosity, but what frustrates you most about what we do, or how we act?



Remember, we're pretty easy to offend, and pretty soft, so be gentle.

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 10:09 AM

I HATE SHALLOW girls! you know those kind of girls who are just after fashions and latest celebrity craziness, well, I expect them to care more a little about what is going in the world as it is a good sign that she may care about others and her family in the future too!

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 10:59 AM

@IOnlyDateCheerleaders, I totally appreciate your inner beauty, and I know the Lord does too!



@Chakal, oh that's alright, I don't think anyone likes it when anyone acts shallow, makes them feel like they're not connecting with anyone else.



@Tulip, You make a really good point, but emotions you can share with your family/your girlfriends/and the Lord, of course.

I don't think emotions are really a sin, it's actions we have to watch ourselves for, so if an emotion caused one to act evilly, you have to repent.

Jesus had all the human emotions we all feel and yet he couldn't sin.



(Perhaps I'm not fully understanding emotional purity, by your definition though)



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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 11:10 AM

Well I broke up with my previous girlfriend because she was focussed on her own (and her kids) needs and mine always ended up taking a back seat. I'd often flagged it up but it never became a priority for her, probably because she didn't see it as a problem. Eventually that relationship bled me dry.

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 11:35 AM

Rachel,



What I believe Tulip is trying to get at is that if your emotions are not devoted to that guy than it is the same as a man looking a another girl and allowing his mind to wonder.



For example if a couple gets in a fight and the wife repeatedly goes to another sources, family, girlfriends, guy friends (which I think most men would find the most hurtful.) and never talks about it with her husband, then I would consider it being emotional unfaithful.



Now granted I completely agree where counsel and getting a 3rd point of view, but think that should only come if the argument can't be settle alone.

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 11:44 AM

Rachel the real reason Chevy pleads the 5th is because he thinks all women look like the monkey hugging a kitten on his profile.

I agree with that guy, Chevy.:yay:

Check it out sometime. As for me I am the masked bandit in the photo. I will steal a woman's heart and run.:hearts:

catch you monkeys later........ :ROFL:

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 11:53 AM

I think what Tulip is trying to say is that you should not get too close to someone emotionally (prior to marriage); that you need to have some boundaries there. There are many facets of intimacy, and the physical isn't the only one that can be damaging.



This is something that I'm horrible at, though I've vowed in this past week to reform and figure out some boundaries.

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 11:55 AM

Oh, and as far as women go... I'm really not into the gossip thing. Why is it that so many females can't seem to have a conversation that doesn't involve talking about other people?



I've also found that females hold grudges longer. Not cool.

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 12:01 PM

If that was what he meant by emotional purity, I'm sure I agree.

Men seek out comfort a lot when they are having problems, I knew men from a church I used to go to who would consult the Pastor or men at church because he didn't want to sort things out with his wife.



I don't really view expressing your emotions to someone else as a form of infidelity, or unfaithfulness, unless you're going to a man who isn't in your family, or who isn't your husband.



I know a lot of men who are emotionally absent.



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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 12:11 PM

Dennis, you are most definitely a heart stealing bandit if I ever saw one. And most women really do look like that monkey hugging on that kitten.



I suppose the Chevy in this scenario would be the kitten.

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 03:41 PM

Pixy hit the nail on the head with what I meant. Sorry if I wasn't clear. While I don't think a female friend wanting some advice equates to a one night stand, most problems that people have are really much better handled for women between women and for men between men. In a relationship, obviously you're going to have fewer barriers emotionally, but there still need to be some, just like you're going to be more physical with your boyfriend than you would with just a friend, but you have barriers still.

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