Author	Thread: Support your wife financially
Ferngirl View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 03:14 AM Why do men these days think a woman should go out to work and support herself financially? I think if they want to marry us, then they should be prepared to take care of us financially. Maybe old fashioned, but when we're @home, we clean, cook, sew, mend, create and if we have to go out and work, we don't have the time, to make the home nice and cook good, proper meals and be attentive and devoted. I'll be interested to see men's reply's to this Q! So far I have been blessed and found men to care for me in past relationships, but I do see there's a lot who say - wanted - independant woman! Some of just want to be an old fashioned wife at home n be some ones babygirl and betaken care of. I also know I will be challenged by career women on this who would say - don't you want to do something for yourself- to put it simply - NO! I just want to be a wife - simple as that! Post Reply
Ferngirl View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 02:53 PM Im here to find a husband of course - why else? And I didnt ask the ladys advice because it was about asking men their opinions. Im sorry lady if you dont think you're old, and I did say with respect and of course 39 is young but I thought you were about 60 something from yr picture but granted it is small and not a clear one. Im staying out of these forums and sticking withme god n the Bible - I don't really fin dyou all like pastor says Christians are supposed to be like! God bless all, I'm out! Post Reply
Ferngirl View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 02:56 PM And at God's Judge no my mother taughtme NOTHING she beat and rejected me at 3 years old! Imdefinitely not coming back on here! Some of you are just plain cruel! Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 03:15 PM My mother did the same thing and I still manage to Trust God and respect the opinions of others no matter if they agree with everything I say or not. Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 03:17 PM And it's GodsJude! Who's the rude one here? Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 03:22 PM Fern So far I have seen you: *playing the victim card *insulting people based on their age (someone 17 years your senior is not that far removed from you) *insulting people based on their ethnicity (basically calling white people short and nerdy) *making rascist comments (saying black men are the dominate race on earth) *wanting to shoot from the hip and say it as it is but not wanting to receive the same *and basically saying you want a man just to spoil you but apparently not want to give back in a relationship May I suggest you may want to spend a little time reflecting on your self, actions and comments and not saying everyone here is rude? I would also like to point out that you will always be disappointed if you are looking to another human for your safety and happiness. We have all fallen short, we all have sinned, we all will continue to fail, sin and dissapoint. You have pointed out that you have had many bad past relationships. Why would you want to rely on your judgement as to who will make a good husband (ie very strict criteria in your profile) instead of relying on Gods plan for you? Why do you put so much faith in your pastor instead of God and the Word? Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 03:25 PM Hummm...Gods Judge ???...thats funny...:laugh:... So very sorry you were victomized by your Mother & Men in the Past...I never like hearin bout that bout anyone. We all come from all walks of life an many people are broken. Also sorry to hear that you believe all of Us are Cruel cuz we are trying to understand were you are coming from & to get to know you as a person. Which I guess we have....May GOD Bless you on your search for a Husband...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 03:33 PM Ferngirl, "don't talk to me"?.....(Didn't you talk about me first?) "I don't like you!".........(Yeah,I know, but you're called to love me!) "you're a rude man".....(Oh my, look who's calling the kettle black....sometimes the truth hurts, but is doesn't make it rude) There is a worldly saying : Don't dish it out if you can't take it. There is a Biblical saying : You reap what you sow. Didn't I already share with you it is delusional to think one can write whatever they want and expect no comments? Ferngirl, Ask yourself some questions.... Is God in control? Does God bring people into your life for a reason? If something is hard to accept is it automaticly from the devil? Why do you treat someone who has never called you a name and gives you honesty, as a enemy and those who enable your reality, as friends? Shouldn't one be open to what truth God may be saying to you through whoever? Btw, I don't see Jesus or any of the apostles declaring themselves as "victimized". Why do you think that is? Yes, I know it's a lot, just let it soak in awhile. Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 04:28 PM Bornagsintoserve, You really need to take care of that typo in your profile in the age box (56) anyone can see that it should read 46 ! Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 04:48 PM Awww---- Thanks twosparrows--- You just made this old lady smile:glow: BTW--- Did you notice cdff was etched into the snow on the picnic table in front of me? Just took those pics last week. Deborah Post Reply
View Profile History	Support your wife financially Posted : 14 Jan, 2011 06:08 PM PEOPLE! Why am I sad reading these posts. Not that I agree with everyone here, but have some respect for each other! Do unto other as you would have them do unto you! That means you act how you want to be treated by the way:rolleyes: Now to answer the original question: I want to be able to support my wife financially! If she wants to work, then I want her to be able to work, because she wants too, not because she has too. Then, when and if children enter the home, have her be able to be home when the the children are instead of work. It is the man's responsibility to take care of his wife, to support, defend, protect, and to spiritually lead as long as he is in communion with God, If not, then the woman should lead. So please everybody, we can disagree, but do it appropiately. No name calling, etc. You may ask legitimate questions, but be nice! Have a great day everybody!, Kyle:bouncy: Post Reply

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