Author	Thread: Not to be nosey or rude....
KellyBean View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 11:55 AM ....but how many of you fellas are virgins? I'm sincerely curious. It's so hard to come across pure people these days, and I'm just wondering if there are plenty of people who believe in purity before marriage out there. Post Reply
View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 08:44 PM I think u guys are awesome and strong men and women of God! :applause: I'm a virgin technically, pure as never being touched by any man (except my family and my male dogs), to be honest errrr not 100% pure in mind though =( and it's getting harder to stay pure in mind everyday these days! Post Reply
View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 09:00 PM I am a virgin, and even if I wasn't Christian I think I would still choose to stay a virgin until I get married because of the teachings, which I believe in, of the Middle Eastern culture I grew up in. A lot of people get saved after they lost their virginity, and we should not hold this against them. Sexual immorality is a sin, and so is stealing, lying, cheating, dishonesty, gossip, and so on...but we don't hold the lies, thefts, and gossips of the past against a born-again Christian. And in the same manner we shouldn't hold the fact someone has lost his/her virginity against them, because they are now new creation in Christ. A lot of not virgin Christians are living a pure life. Also the technical definition of virginity does not equal purity. A lot of teens practice a lot of immoral sexual acts without losing their "virginity". Purity starts with the mind and heart; a pure physical living is only an expression of one's mind. I personally don't think the term "purity before marriage" is an accurate description of the Christian life (but I know what you mean). Because we are called to live a pure life before and after marriage; marriage is not an act that nullifies purity. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 10:21 PM @ 123: :applause: :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 10:24 PM JLYM You are the best! I was eating when I read your post...I was choking, crying and all at once!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 07:40 AM For those of you who go on and on about purity vs virginity, please try to see things from the other person�s point of view. For those of us who are still virgins, we see purity and virginity as the same thing. Every time someone gets on this site and asked why people don�t want to remain virgins you try and twist things all around and make it sound as if they are trying to be unreasonable. People take so many things out of context these days that you have to bring a lawyer with you any time you want to say anything. I am willing to say that KellyBean started this post because some jerk she was interested in tried to get her to have sex with her. I really doubt she posted it because she found out that a guy she was interested in had sex before he became a Christian. Why would a Christian want to remain a virgin if even other Christians look down on you for doing so. Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 08:19 AM I am still a virgin and just like jesuslovesyouandme I struggle too with thoughts of the mind....as Im sure we all do...stay strong jesuslovesyouandme!!!! You're awesome!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 08:45 AM It's so easy for a guy to say he is a virgin... since nobody can't really know the truth about it. I mean, guys can say they are virgin when they are not, and women can't. I think that's another disadvantage us women are comparing to men. I've been asked for many guys from this website that I talk if I'm a virgin. I do not want "to be nosey or rude", but some enjoys to know this private thing about us womem so they can masturb%�$ while they're talking to us. It's imoral and and occur to talk about a so delicate and private thing to talk to a strange. We have disadvantage about that, and men shouldn't ask, since they can note if we are or not, but we couldn't never note if a guy is real a virgin. It's so unfair! Post Reply
View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 09:25 AM Girl womam I agree maybe that a guy shouldn't immediately ask a girl that question. As far as being able to tell, that would only happen if they were VERY VERY intimate. Right or wrong? chevy Post Reply
marikashome View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 11:39 AM It's much easier to tell if someone is pure or not... and there's no need to ask. Purity or impurity will generally prove itself. Virginity can be a discussion later in the relationship. MUCH later. :) Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Not to be nosey or rude.... Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 10:12 PM Great point, Marika. :peace::peace: Post Reply

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