Author	Thread: sex before marriage..need help!
Admin	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 09:56 AM This may be a silly question but I would love a Christian man's perspective on this. I have been divorced for ten years and even though my college days were a little wild, I choose six years ago to save myself for marriage. For some reason I attract the men who say they admire that I'm willing to wait, but then imply that they want to sleep with me. Are there really men out there that are wanting to wait and put God first? Or am I looking at being single for the rest of my life? Honesty is highly appreciated. Thank you and God Bless, Dawn Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 07:33 PM You"re welcome!!! Joyfulsimle!!!!:waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 07:45 PM TO:Twosparrows,that WAS GOOD;I MEAN GREAT OF YOU FOR STANDING UP!!:applause:THAT MUST'VE BEEN VERY,VERY HARD TO DO.Imagine if you've done that people who do'nt love God would not only look at you differently,but at The LORD differently also. Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 10:45 PM I really do not think that a woman will feel that you are �not really that into her� if you do not come on to her. I would think that the way you treat her and the time and affection that you show her would most certainly let her know that �you�re really into her�. I would think that it would be an insult for a man to �hit� on a woman�thinking that she is �that way�. Joyful, if a guy cannot control his urges before he is married � How much better will he be AFTER he gets married? Will he be able to say no to some other woman that comes on to him? Discipline is Paramount in any relationship. We men tend to be very selfish. We tend to gratify ourselves and then justify it. We feel that we deserve certain things and by golly we�ve take them. Your man needs to be Disciplined! Obedient to GOD and obedient to the relationship. No�women do not need a man to �Hit on them� in order to feel wanted and men do not �hit on women� as a way to let them know that they are wanted. I guarantee that you will know if I �want� you! But, it will not be because I tried to get you in bed. Men can say whatever they want to�use whatever Sweet Words that they can think of, But�eventually their True Nature will show through. Once you see it�if it is not Godly�turn away and �Dust off your Sandals�! Post Reply
Koinonia87 View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 24 Nov, 2010 03:29 PM Couldn't have said it better, Archimedes. Amen. Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 11 Dec, 2010 11:51 PM You are not alone sister.. i have been facing this case for almost all my life stay virgin until 35 years old ..they tough i didnot loved them when i said no sex before marriage..:zzzz::zzzz: I did it because I love Jesus Christ more then things!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	sex before marriage..need help! Posted : 21 Dec, 2010 07:17 PM I'm a virgin, and through God's help waiting until I am married. Post Reply

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