Author	Thread: Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting?
Admin	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 08:35 AM . Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 05:07 PM @savedbygrace3 I can give you mho on why many of the thread topics are about sex. First, it can be to grab attention...and that it certainly does. :rolleyes: :laugh: Second, and more importantly, is that many Christians...and some that are not or on the edge...are genuinely curious and inquiring about God's view of sex and the place of sex in the Christian lifestyle. Let's look at your question, "Has society, via media of all forms, impressed upon the hearts and minds of ppl (especially Christians with in CDFF) so much as there is very little to nothing left in your hearts/minds or desire to talk about?" I would say yes...culture, via media, has impressed on the hearts and minds of people, including believers, the role of sex in their lives. Is it a realistic, true impression...no...but it seems to be the only one open to them. Question...what has the church taught, without judgment, to countermand this view and give the Godly, realistic place of sex in the life of a believer? Or, is the subject taboo, with the 'thou shall nots' taking front and center with no further explanation or discussion? What do Christians do with their feelings, their thoughts, their questions? Sex is a very powerful drive. God has placed limits on it because of it's power over us. As such we need to show wisdom in its use and discussion. But, there is nothing inherently wrong about it...it is a gift/blessing from God. Ideally, a Christian would have someone within their fellowship with whom they could openly have these discussions. But, that isn't often available. It is impractical to think that every time one has a question they can discuss it with a professional. You have a forum here of people from a variety of cultures, of different ages, at different stages in their Christian walks, with different doctrines and understandings. Its purpose is to discuss the Christian walk across the board. Sex is a part of that. It is a wonderful opportunity to present the Christian perspective and reach out to fellow believers and non believers alike. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 06:41 PM @Godshandiwork :applause::applause::applause::applause::applause::applause::applause: :yay: Couldn't agree more. AMEN SISTER! Very well written! :yay: :applause::applause::applause::applause::applause::applause::applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 09:26 PM Handi... Well written? Yes... :) Thank you for your valued time and thoughts. This is exactly what I meant by saying that if ppl have such True Deep Sincere issues or questions/concerns about sex there are wonderful Christian Counselors/Therapists that are specifically/Professionally Educated in this area, and would be better equipped to truly assist those in need with in this area. But, I'm addressing the threads on CDFF on sex topics where its stated as tongue in cheek. Like joking around about Homosexuals, Lesbians, Bisexuals, Transgenders... There is Nothing funny about that... Its very much the opposite in that its very sad. And sadder still is for the one who is making the "joke." Or... The threads that the person starts finds humor in titling it purposely in a way that would lead the reader to think its about a sexual topic and then when the reader opens the thread its written... "Got You." That is not a healthy thing to do nor is it a Christian thing to do as we all know sexual sin strikes many and is a horrible and demeaning disease. Handi, from what you have written above I know you understand what I'm saying and see my hearts true intentions. Thank you again Handi for your time in responding and sharing. Blessings, saved3 Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 10:46 PM So basically you were going after Twosparrows for two threads, and instead of taking it up with him privately, you decided to take it up with the whole forum, but not mention him specifically? That seems rather passive aggressive and not very Christlike. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 11:42 PM Tulip, I'm so tired of you attempting to start havoc all the time. You know full well MORE people than 2sparrows "joked" about such things and I've not seen 2sparrows "joke" about starting a thread and then saying "got you." You, Tulip came up with that one! As far as talking to 2Sparrows in private We Did so ... Step Off Tulip!!! Give me a freakin break! Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 12:42 AM No actually we did Not talk in private. I contacted you After you posted the above; basiclly sharing how I thought it was wrong especially after I already posted a apology defering to your wishes. I did specifically mention you should of taken up your grievances privately with me. But you know what ...it's Ok Not that big of a deal...peace to you savedbygrace. :peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 01:06 AM May God have mercy on you twosparrows as you and I both know you've apologized several times to me in private (which I still have your messages from your private messages to me.) Now that I've informed you I no longer want to continue our friendship you post this complete untruth. Then send me one last private message (as I've now blocked you) stating your apologizing yet again, but in the next breath you say your not Apologizing in the same private message. Then you wished Charlie and I well wishes and signed truth & grace. You don't seem to understand truth as you've displayed to me here. So, I'm sure your well wishes to Charlie and I were just tongue in cheek. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 08:54 AM @saved You did not inform me of your grievances in private before your public posting. There is that better? Actually it makes it worse; since we did talk in private as friends previously giving you every opprotunity to express your grievances. You were always very cordial, which is why your public post surprised me. Again peace to you Btw , I don't know the proper etiquette for this; am I now suppose to block you also? Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 09:21 AM @2sparrows... I have no idea why the 180 you've done. I too was shocked to see such cold harsh words about others from you. You and I both know we most did discuss this in private. 2sparrows speaking of saying things publicly, you do much More than your fair share. Just the other day You slammed publicly that girl for starting a thread about why men constantly hit on her and not view her as a Christian woman... Your first response to her was... Have you seen your profile pics? Get real... And you went on attaching her in public. She then deactivated her account right then and you continued your insulting behavior towards her. So... Please don't act like the poor me wounded butterfly because I just asked "why" and stated there are several other topics to discuss that are just as interesting. Instead of answering my Forum question, you and a few others chose to do make it personal and brought it here to this ugly place. As far as you asking if you should block me, as I've blocked you... That is Entirely up to you. But just to let you know... I've NO intentions of sending you private messages so I think you'll be okay. Even in all of this, 2sparrows, In Jesus name I choose to forgive you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why Are The Forum Thread Topics Mostly About Sex Or Type Of Sexual Partners? Did You Know There Are Several Other Topics That Are Just As Interesting? Posted : 23 Nov, 2010 10:09 AM Thank you saved, I accept your forgiveness and have already offered you my forgiveness. BTW; Forgiveness = For---Give = "To Give as beFore" hmmmm.... :goofball: Post Reply

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