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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 07:27 PM

What are some things that a woman could do early on in a relationship that would freak you out and possibly drive you away? (things like posting a link on your Facebook wall of the engagement ring she likes or stashing a box of feminine supplies in your bathroom cabinet or...)

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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 07:47 AM

Being interested in me one day and not the next.



Being encouraging of our relationship one day and discouraging the next.



In other words: being "wishy-washy"; certain, then uncertain, not making up her mind and knowing her heart about the relationship we've started and sticking to building a meaningful relationship that grows and lasts, confusing both of us in the process.



Another one is reading my e-mails and responding initially, then reading other e-mails and not responding right away after she's read them or at all; I try to respond right away after a gal sends me an e-mail, out of courtesy and in Christian love ... I don't get this reading and responding for a while then reading and suddenly not responding ... what did I write that elicited no response suddenly?



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Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 09:25 AM

You can choose how much time you spend together, and you can choose how much of your soul you choose to bare to the other person. You don't need to just talk about the weather, but be careful you don't give away your whole heart too quickly just to feel loved or needed.

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 10:53 AM

1. Cancel dates at the last minute.

2. Read romance novels and/or cosmopolitan type magazines.

3. Talking about soul mates/"the one"/sparks/chemistry/etc.

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 01:35 PM

Why are you opposed to chemistry Ian? Should people only date/marry based on a rubric and not worry about whether they actually enjoy being around each other?

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 06:26 PM

Chemistry is something the secular world often uses as a euphemism for lust. It's not something that will result in a successful long term relationship.

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 06:32 PM

I disagree. I'm sure in some cases lust and chemistry are considered the same thing, but the vast majority of the time, chemistry simply means how two people relate to each other/get along.

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 11:48 PM

Tulip said: "You can choose how much time you spend together, and you can choose how much of your soul you choose to bare to the other person. You don't need to just talk about the weather, but be careful you don't give away your whole heart too quickly just to feel loved or needed."

It's true that there are some active choices there, but it would be painful to stop the natural flow of something... And I'm not sure how to talk to a guy that I REALLY like without giving my heart away. It really just happens.



RE: chemistry

I know that people have different definitions of it, but for me, the word is fairly interchangeable with "attraction." Just because someone and I match up well on paper doesn't mean that there is any attraction there or any level of pleasure from being around them or talking to them.

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 11:25 AM

How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days ?...That movie was Funnnyyy...:laugh:...Nice Fairytale endin...:winksmile:

Well...ima purty sure Ifin ya Ignore or Disregard what is Important to Him an give or show No Affection at all...its a Guarantee he will be gone in less than 10 days...Gents have just as many wants an needs as women...xo

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 11:34 AM

I was wondering if anyone would get that reference! It WAS funny, though I didn't appreciate the sexual humour in a couple of places. Kate Hudson's character certainly pulled some crazy stuff, though... *laughs*

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 02:36 PM

How would it be painful?

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