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Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 10:24 PM

What are your thoughts on why men (and women) look at pornography?

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 02:51 PM

I hear ya BG an thanxs for luvin me...Mauhhhhh�.:winksmile:...Your right it is a real life issue and its Always Good to talk about these types of personal issues an get them resolved...Perferably Men assisting and counseling Men an Women assisting an counseling Women...I just dont find it Appropriate Subject Matter in Mixed an Open Forum...jus got me riled up...thats my conviction an Ima stickin to it !!!...

Mark ~ I understand that we have all discussed Alcoholism an Addictions in open Forum...but this Subject matter is pertaining to Sensual Visual Lust which is Sin. Jesus* said if any Man ((( Looks ))) upon a Women with ((( Lust ))) he has Already Committed Adultery an no matter how anyone trys to Validate it or Sugar Coat it is still a SIN...So�either God is Right or Yall are�Hummm...:rolleyes:...This aint Burger King but Yall can have it your way but Ima stickin with Jesus*....Luv ya All...xo

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 04:26 PM

"I hear ya BG an thanxs for luvin me...Mauhhhhh�....Your right it is a real life issue and its Always Good to talk about these types of personal issues an get them resolved...Perferably Men assisting and counseling Men an Women assisting an counseling Women..."



No-one said there was an issue. The original post was a question and we are all responding to it.



"Mark ~ I understand that we have all discussed Alcoholism an Addictions in open Forum...but this Subject matter is pertaining to Sensual Visual Lust which is Sin."



Is drinking to get drunk, sin? Yes. Is taking drugs to get high a sin? Yes. Those things are addictions, true, but are you saying that pornography is not addicting?



"Jesus* said if any Man ((( Looks ))) upon a Women with ((( Lust ))) he has Already Committed Adultery an no matter how anyone trys to Validate it or Sugar Coat it is still a SIN...So�either God is Right or Yall are�Hummm......"



NOT A SINGLE POSTER IS JUSTIFYING SIN. Not one. You, however, have condemned the men who are sharing their struggle with the sin of porno, and that is unloving, judgmental, and sin in itself. Matthew outlines what is to happen in cases like this.

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 05:08 PM

I like Jude the Prude. Some people unwittingly glorify sexual sins while attempting to preach against it. I have never know any women to use porn except those in the business (sex). I could be wrong. I believe all men have a problem with porn. If they don't, they should have. :yay:

Because it is a disgraceful and blatant disrespect for all women. It should be banned simply because it is a wholesale invasion of privacy and exploitation of the female form. They call it a freedom of expression. But there is an awful lot of money changing hands in this business. I have never heard of porn stars doing "it" for free. To me that is whormongering. That is the root meaning of the word. The Greek word Pornea litterally means graphic images of harlotry. Christians are right to condemn it.

It is a problem for men because it renders them impotent in respect to any normal relationship with a woman, devestating to marriage and promotes other sexual sins, i.e. child porn, homosexuality, adultery and so on.



A man should not have eyes full of adultery. 2 Peter 2:14, "They have eyes full of adultery, insatiable for sin. They entice unsteady souls."

Some call it the poor man's viagra because it helps them date rape themselves whichn is a type of (homo) same sex or sex with self.

Married men should cultivate a lust for thier wives at all costs because they are so strongly and easily tempted. This is the one place a wife should exercise authority over the husband, to protect him and make sure he is not out of control. Yes, a wife can and should control her man. Because he is like "an ox goes to the slaughter, Or as a fool to the correction of the stocks," Proverbs 7:22 NKJV. No woman wants to married to a dead Ox.

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 06:25 PM

50% of a man's brain is geared for the Visual (eyes)!



From the time we are old enough to be propped up on the couch in front of the TV we are bombarded with sex. As I grew up it was considered "sophisticated" to have a copy of Playboy on your coffee table (my mom would have had a heart attack...right after she killed my dad). Men ruled the World and the Home...boy were we deluded!



I am not making excuses. Pornography takes what God made (a Beautiful Creation) and debases it into a selfish act that hurts not only the user, but the object and spouses too.



We need to pray for everyone involved in this insidious disease.

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 06:58 PM

wow I read everyones replies and you all have valid points. I think for men porn is easy and they can escape into a world they want to be in.



I know women who watch and look at porn but not many women are not as visual as men they escape with thoughts..



I have never had a pop of of child porn.. that just does NOT happen. I did however go to type in a web site that i go to all the time and my dyslexic fingers made a typo and it was a porn site.. oh my I couldnt get it to stop with pop ups had to turn off the computer...



we all struggle with our own sins I feel for any person who struggles with this sin because the world today is SO sexual there seems to be no escape from it

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 08:20 PM

@Shepard, on my, where do I begin?



When you say you could be wrong, that was right. Lust has no gender bias. If more women came forward everyone would see it's much more prevalent then ppl think. (Women watching porn)



There is no scripture in the Bible if understood in it's proper context, tells us to control anyone. God doesn't even control us but gives free will to make choices. You are taking the responsibility of the man to keep his ownself from adultery, etc...and trying to make his wife the bearer of that burden? It's the woman's job to control and keep her man out of sexual sin cause he's like a bout to be dead ox? What?? I wish I would.



Rebellion, manipulation and control are witchcraft spirits that many women use and they are out of order. The Word teaches us (women) to be wise & build up our house instead of tearing it down. We are to please our husbands and submit. E'vrybody is responsible for themselves & that includes the man. He should communicate what he needs, in the bedroom & otherwise and his wife, if she is wise, will hook him up. Even if she doesn't, he is still called to be holy & take the matter to God in prayer.

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 10:14 PM

@Jude. I agree with EVERYTHING SilverFire said in response to you. I would like to add also that the Bible SPECIFICALLY SAYS:



James 5:16 (NASB)

"Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much."



I do not know how much more clear it could be. Confessing our sins to one another is NOT sin. It is BIBLICAL. And when one, or all, of us is struggling with sin, telling each other about it and praying for each other about it is the way that we can be healed from it. Holding it inside accomplishes nothing.

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 10:14 AM

@ My good sister Jude, in no way are you a prude!!!!

Paul did write that men council men and women council women.Why did he write this????????

because, I will not discuss certain personal issues with women. Not all of them are sins either. My close friends know that I take meds for seizures. So, I am private in certain matters.



My family matters also are not discussed with just anyone.

I am carefull.



This is similer to what I wrote in the morals forum in response to a young man who attacked women clothing with all kinds of vulgar statements.Dennis

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 11:03 AM

I guess lil ole Jude must of hit a Nerve with a few people�:laugh:

I find it interesting that some persons get upset & bent out of shape when someone shares they find the Subject Matter Inappropriate in Open Forum. I�m not going to waste time explaining what I have already shared. I said what I meant & meant what I said and stand by it. If my comments have offended anyone I would hope that they would look to them selves as to why, for they were not meant or directed at anyone person in particular but directed at the Subject Matter. As for being accused of Condemning men or women for that matter for an Addiction of any kind I do not have that authority. As far as being un-loving, to the contrary�I love immensely. To those that don�t know me, my boldness in speaking does come across that way. To those that do know me they will surely disagree�With that said�Yall hava a great day an weekend and know that you are loved�xo

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 12:06 PM

The bible says women are not to usurp authority over the man. And this what I mean by controlling her husband.

And you are right every man must have self control. But in the area of sexual temptations that authority is also given to each other.

..."because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband...

... The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does."1Cor7:2 &4.

Some find it hard to understand how a man can have authority over a woman's body. Likewise I'm sure it must be hard to for women to understand how much power they have over men. Unfortunately the one's who "DO" get it are the prostitutes and pornographers.

Like I said before, if a prostitute can have sex two or three times a day (for money) why can't a wife have sex two or three times a week for her husband? If the two are "ONE" whatever problems they have belong to them both. If the husband has sex problems, she does too because they are one. And if the wife wants her husband to pay her for what (sex) he is entittled to, how is that any different than paying for some porno magazine. Of course I could be wrong. there is another side of the coin. Like Adam said "it's that woman you gave." :ROFL:

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