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Rabbit32 View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 10 Aug, 2010 12:42 PM Fellas I wanna know your thoughts. I was doing some random thinking, and I wondered how many men would date a woman that is pregnant? Post Reply
View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 04:10 PM Spring, Imma need you to stop trying to stay out of stuff! Your way was all diplomatic and nice. Summed it up, thanks. Post Reply
View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 08:05 PM Pregnant for whatever reason or not, you should be with somebody because you trust and respect them. And that trust and respect should be based on the choices they are making right now. And it's not built in a day. Everybody has an equal opportunity to earn that from me. And for me to choose her takes more than rewarding her for something she should already be doing anyway like taking and accepting responsibility. Strength and independence are what I admire most in people. It's not what you're going through, it's how you are going through it. To be honest I didn't see any judgement in the comments made. Me personally the way I see it, pregnant women have a whole different set of priorities and responsibilities that they should get a handle on before getting around to looking for a boyfriend (like, gee idunno, getting that baby born, staying healthy, and preparing to be able to support it). No judgement, everybody makes mistakes (assuming they aren't in the extreme minority of pregnant widow or rape victim), but never for 1 second do I think that that means they should be punished for it for the rest of their life. Also @ 1babygirl: I should have said I meant no disrespect instead. For the most part your comment just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I just happened to choose that time to get that off my chest and your comment just happened to be there. Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 09:20 PM I will gladly add that if a pregnant, single woman came to me and asked my opinion about her dating, I would tell her that I didn't think it was wise yet. Something of significant weight happened in her life to create the situation whether is was her fault or not. Nine months is a very short period of time to be ready to move forward. The only reason I commented was that I did and do think there were attitudes expressed againt single pregnant women as a whole. Rose Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 10:00 PM To be honest with ya'll finding someone who is a lover of Christ is hard these days, even on here ild say probabaly a small fration of people on here really walk the walk. So why not be open and say "God whatever you have for me is good, and I'll trust in you". Leave no rock unturned. Post Reply
View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 10:07 PM Unless you want somebody/something that lives under a rock, leave every stone unturned. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 10:15 PM That made no sence...to me Post Reply
View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 10:51 PM haha it was a fun twist:laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 11:01 PM Oh it DIDN'T make sense. My bad. My point of view is finding somebody isn't that difficult. If they're there, they're there and if they're not, they're not. And to borrow from the phrase 'no stone unturned' they're not (the right woman for you that is) under rocks waiting for somebody to look for them there. It's all in God's timing. Post Reply
View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 02:31 AM OMG(osh). #1, Brandon, pregnancy outside of marriage because of fornication, is a manifestation and consequence of one particular sin. Because we are not perfect and don't know it all, we all fall sometimes. The Word tells us that a righteous man gets back up. Tell Enoch and nem I said hi if you are perfect cause I'm sure you're getting ready to be taken up. If you will admit that you slip up either by word, deed or thought and must ask forgiveness of our Father, why do judge a woman so harshly just because Post Reply
View Profile History	Perhaps a touchy subject Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 02:50 AM you see a end result of her sin? Yeah, I said judge. You don't see the other commentary as judgmental because you have the same attitude. You don't want 2 reward her by being with her? Wow. It reminds me of the priest and the man giving their alms. The priest thanks God that he isn't like the other man. When did it become ok 2 judge another's servant? Her sin (and the sin of the guy who slept with her) & her baby are God's business to judge only. Why do we categorize sin? One is worse (to us) than another. Post Reply

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