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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 22 Jul, 2010 05:18 PM

Feel good about yourself. Even if you don't get her at least you'll still feel good about yourself.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 10:18 AM

You have to be careful that your confidence isn't rooted so much in yourself as it is in Christ. Christ loves you, died for your sins, and you are complete in him. You can have a lot more confidence in Christ than yourself, because yourself is finite and sinful, while Christ is infinite and sinless. If you are at a point where you can't lead a woman courageously, reject passivity, accept responsibility, and seek the greater reward, then it would be very beneficial to get that squared away before you think about getting into a relationship.



That said, you're going to attract way more women with who you are than by spittin' some game. If you're thinking, "I'll do nice things for her, buy her some nice meals, and even give her some nice presents. Then she'll like me," you've already lost the game. Doing things to get a girl to like you, no matter how "nice," is straight up manipulation.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 10:34 AM

Hey Tulip! Ain't hert from you in long while. Agree wit everything you said.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 02:10 PM

Hang on a minute while I pick my jaw up off the floor. It's around here some where...

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 02:22 PM

Ha ha, Brandon. I can be agreeable when I want to. :-p

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 02:38 PM

Especially when she is agreeing with me. That means she's right!

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 02:59 PM

haha ya don't have to be 1babygirl. Just surprised and glad to see tulip back.

Ok, jaw collected. I mostly speak for myself when I say this, but I'm pretty sure most of us guys are competitive by nature and fall into the trap of letting competitiveness get the best of us thinking women and love are the ultimate game. Nothing better to win and nothing worse to lose, the ultimate monopoly money. I think I've come to the point where I realize there is more to life and all you need is love. I recommend God's for 2 reasons 1) it's perfect and 2) it's infinite.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 03:16 PM

Thanks Brandon. I'm glad to be back.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 05:39 PM

I suppose what I learned in not so many words is that things of this world can be earned. And things not of this world cannot.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 30 Jul, 2010 07:16 AM

You can't expect an amazing woman to fall for you if you are completely clueless with women.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 31 Jul, 2010 12:19 PM

You can read all the "10 Things You Don't Know About Women Articles" and books of the same topic and be the most clued in guy in the world when it comes to women, but you will never be successful if you aren't happy with yourself. If you don't love yourself for who you are, then who will?

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