Author Thread: I have a sincere question for you guys (girls feel free to jump in)
Admin


I have a sincere question for you guys (girls feel free to jump in)
Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 06:39 AM

First, I ask you to be truthful yet tactful in your responses. :-)







Okay here's my question & situation ...





1a) How can you tell if a "Christian" man is being truthful/for real with you?



1b) How long should one give the benefit of the doubt for?





Situation:



I met a seemingly really great "Christian" man here on CDFF. We have been sending

emails back and forth. We have also been sending emails to each other on our

personal email address as well.



They have started to become less often to hardly at all. I'm not one that does well with hints,

I do much better with truth. So ... I asked him if he wanted too continue to get to know each other

or if he has had a change of heart. I've asked this in so many words on two occasions and both times

he stated he is still interested in getting to know me, he has just been slammed lately with his online ebay

business more so than usual and is sorry he has not been able to connect with me.



Now, to read his profile in combination with the emails we've sent to each other it just does not seem his character would be one to just say

something to pacify me.





However, it has been a full week, yes folks 7 days, and I've not heard from him. I understand being overwhelmed at work as I experience that on a fairly regular basis. But I'm

thinking if you are truly interested in someone would you not make time for that person?



Now I have no idea how an Ebay business runs and he also stated he helps others start up their Ebay businesses as well

which is why I'm wondering just how much leeway does one give in this area?



Mind you I truly like this man and would love to know him better... Okay I'm rambling now ...



The floor is now yours ... =)

Post Reply



View Profile
History
I have a sincere question for you guys (girls feel free to jump in)
Posted : 13 Aug, 2011 10:34 PM

I would be able to tell when I see him face to face and look into his eyes (his soul) and see if he is aworthy man. The other part of the question to me 6 months to a year of getting to know each other online then to have coffee in a public plase to just simply talk. I dont believe in sex before marriae either.:angel:

Post Reply

kay333

View Profile
History
I have a sincere question for you guys (girls feel free to jump in)
Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 07:09 PM

:peace: Sorry I think all women should read the book" he's just not that into you".... Sorry sweety life is to short to waste time on someone who is insincere.

Post Reply



View Profile
History
I have a sincere question for you guys (girls feel free to jump in)
Posted : 26 Aug, 2011 10:52 AM

Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we WILL BE ABLE TO COMFORT THOSE WHO ARE IN ANY AFFLICTION with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted. For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.

Keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith. But if any of you lack wisdom, let them ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to them. But they must ask in faith without doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. For those ought not to expect that they will receive anything from the Lord, being double minded, unstable in all their ways.

It is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work HIS good pleasure. Do all things without grumbling and disputing; so that you will prove yourself to be blameless and innocent, a child of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world, hold fast the word of light so that in the day of Christ you will have reason to glory because you did not run or toil in vain. Rejoice in the Lord and share your joy with others.....

Post Reply

Page : 1 2 3