Author	Thread: When she lets you into her home
woababy View Profile History	When she lets you into her home Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 11:13 PM Is there some secret code among men that says being allowed into a woman's home means something big? I try to be very careful about whom I allow into my home, because it seems whenever I let a single man enter, a problem begins. Am I unwittingly giving them the green light by letting them come through the door? Do guys secretly think it means "I want you!"? It isn't always easy for me to leave, because I have children, so male friends have visited, or men from church, and co workers have to come help with household repairs. After that, they act different. It somehow changes things, and I have even ended up having to be downright mean to get rid of some! Should I just never let in any male who isn't my man??? This seems so silly, but I need to know what goes inside mens' minds on this. Post Reply
woababy View Profile History	When she lets you into her home Posted : 2 Mar, 2010 09:51 PM Thanks, Linnie! Great tips, because I clean houses sometimes, so I will keep that in mind, and for when a guy comes to fix something at my house too. Post Reply
woababy View Profile History	When she lets you into her home Posted : 2 Mar, 2010 09:57 PM Yeah, Jake, that's the problem. I don't have the money to get things fixed usually and if they hear anything about work I'm doing at my house (it is old and I'm trying to remodel/repair it), they automatically assume I can't do it, and offer to help. Usually I say no thanks, but sometimes I do desperately need the help and its hard to turn it down. Right now I have a nasty plumbing problem I'm trying to ignore, because the man who was volunteered by some others in my church started sort of stalking me even though I never called him or invited him overl. I barely even spoke to the guy or looked him in the face (on purpose). You are right, guys often get the wrong idea. It seems unless you come right out and scream at some people, they think the wrong thing! Post Reply

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