Author	Thread: I have a situation that I would like honest opinions.
itstheGodinme24 View Profile History	I have a situation that I would like honest opinions. Posted : 3 Jan, 2010 03:15 PM Hi Everyone, Ill get straight to the point. I have known this guy for approximately 4 years. When we first met, we attempted to date, we went on a few dates and even kissed; however the relationship didnt work out. I ran across him again about 2 years ago at church and we exchanged numbers. We both have grown so much and we have became great friends, we talk about everything from the bible, my current boyfriend and his children mother. He has two girls that I adore and love spending time with them. We go to the movies, he comes over for dinner etc, but lately my feelings have changed and I begun wanting more than a friendship. Ok, I have spoken to him about my feelings and to my excitement he agreed. He said his feelings has become stronger and he is really attracted to me..but(here comes the but) he says he doesnt want to mess up a good friendship. I have one question do you think its just an excuse or do "Christian" guys actually think like this. I was always taught that I guy knows what he wants and it doesnt take long for him to figure it out. O yea, he says he doesnt want me to close the door on a relationship and one day we might be together. Post Reply
W8n4U2BMine View Profile History	I have a situation that I would like honest opinions. Posted : 19 Dec, 2011 07:18 AM Well, the one answer I haven't seen yet (I may have missed it) which should have been your FIRST resolve, is to pray and consult the Father. Remember this (in all reality) you are consulting a group of strangers and "purported" believers ( not to impune anyone, but that is a fact). Your second resolve (my personal feeling) should be to say, okay let's sit down and discuss your reservations at length. I mean, what "true" friend doesn't want to have a CLEAR understanding. Lastly, I agree with those who believe that if a person can't give you a clearly defined reason(s), then it's best to just let it go(relationship aspirations) Also, do not forget that as believers we are called to have "rule" and control over ourselves(self-discipline). So you have to decide, either A) I can continue to enjoy our friendship (like having an occasional piece of cake). Yet, if I can not control my eating habits(feeling for this person), then sadly, It is better to remove my temptation from the house until I can grow stronger. It seems as though everyone involved has a mature approach to the situation, so you just remember. The Lord doesn't tell us WHAT"s (who) on the menu or what time dinner will be served, but He does reassure us that if remain obedient, it WILL be the BEST meal you've EVER tasted!! Be blessed ;o) Post Reply
View Profile History	I have a situation that I would like honest opinions. Posted : 11 Feb, 2012 02:37 PM Some friend ships are just that you are so close perhaps you wish ur, current man understood you the way your friend does but he is like a brother, if you want your relationship to last let your man in as you did your friend but closer...and keep ur friend. Post Reply
View Profile History	I have a situation that I would like honest opinions. Posted : 1 Dec, 2013 07:43 PM Well he may be trying to see if another person he's dating will except him if she don't you might be his second, our problem we have not learn to fall in love with our mind and not in our head where we learn to hear from God if God not first or we take Him out all else fail, we must keep God in all we do and think, we took Him out of school and put guns in, we must know that Father knows best. Post Reply

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