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DatingGuru

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Do you seek a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?
Posted : 13 May, 2024 06:08 PM

Question for men only:



Do you still search for a submissive woman for marriage? Why?



Or have you given up? Why?



What methods are you using to find a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?

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LittleDavid

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Posted : 23 May, 2024 09:07 AM

The whole idea Paul the Apostle was trying to teach in his letters to the New Testament Church is a restoration of the way God intended marriage to be.

Wives and Husbands (notice in verse 21, the whole thing starts out with 2 humble people).

See also (Song of Solomon 1:1–17; 1 Peter 3:1–7)

Ephesians 5:21 Submit to one another πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰out of reverence for ChristπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ.Wives, submit to your husbands πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰as to the LordπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. 24πŸ‘‰Now as the church submits to Christ, πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰so alsoπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ wives should submit to their husbands in everything.



25Husbands, love your wives, πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰just as ChristπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ loved the church and πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰gave Himself upfor herπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ26to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to Himself as a glorious church, without stain or wrinkle or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰the same wayπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ, husbands ought to love their wives πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰as their ownπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29Indeed, no one ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and cherishes it, πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰just as πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆChrist does the church. 30For we are members of His body.

31β€œFor this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”32This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless, each one of you πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰also must love his wifeπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰as he loves himselfπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ, and πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰the wife mustπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ respect her husband.

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LittleDavid

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Do you seek a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?
Posted : 23 May, 2024 09:11 AM

This is the way marriage was from the start with creation. The man was loving and not over bearing and the wife willingly submitted and did not seek control over her man.

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LittleDavid

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Do you seek a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?
Posted : 23 May, 2024 09:23 AM

1 Peter 3

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3 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

8 Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult.

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Do you seek a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?
Posted : 28 May, 2024 08:53 AM

I prefer personality and a little sass, but not a contentious woman. I married the wrong one not under GOD so I got my just desserts and I accept it. I just thought of another question...oh boy

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Posted : 28 May, 2024 07:55 PM

"Urge the younger women to love their husbands and children." Titus 2:4

No one much sites that anymore.

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Posted : 28 May, 2024 09:09 PM

I just heard a pastor. He said how a married couple was asked about the secret to the longevity of their marriage. The man answered that before marriage they agreed that he would handle all the major decisions and that his wife would handle all the minor decisions, and after 20 years of marriage, he found that he had never had a major decision to make.

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Posted : 28 May, 2024 09:21 PM

Similarly, I heard a woman in a skit in church say, "I let my husband think that he is the head of the house."

Women wear the pants these days and the courts and law-enforcement and pastors more often side with the women.

Guys don't really find submissive women. But some women represent before marriage that they will be submissive to their husband. But in marriage, it is rarely so. More often women want to rule.

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2024 04:21 AM

Yes I do, it's one of the biblical principals that a wife submit to her husband, But more than that it also says not to be unequally yolked with unbelievers. That is why I think it's important to find someone who shares the same faith, with the same beliefs and convictions.

To keep the house unified in one faith. How do you find a wife when women are more committed to their careers?? I mean if I need a doctor, Teacher, architect, or social worker thats why the yellow pages exist, but to find someone who actually wants to look after the home while her husband works and commit to raising her children full time,

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