Author	Thread: Distractions
Admin	Distractions Posted : 12 Oct, 2009 04:21 PM Sometimes I'll be in a social situation, but in my mind i'll still be in 'online mode' and wonder if the girls there will respond to me the same as the girls on here (which is poorly). alot of times that ends up not being the case, but it's still a distraction i have to work at getting through sometimes. anyone else like that? trying to figure out if this site does more harm than good when it comes to maintaining a healthy respect for myself and women. Post Reply
View Profile History	Distractions Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 08:13 AM Ole Cattle We have more or less had this discussion before and you almost always seem to miss the main point or try to devalue it. Ya youre right about everything you say. But the insinuation that I see so often or what is said - is that you (I, MH777,lol) am responsible for everything these women do or who they react to me. That is not true..Their deep seated emotional problems are what are responsible for the majority of it in my opinion. Obviously my flash point or my reactions are something I need to work on - but they are at their height after dealing with so many emotionally ill women - and whats behind that are something that needs to be worked on by replacing that subconscious thinking with Gods word. NO OFFENSE TAKEN OR INTENDED, BECAUSE I FEEL THAT YOU ARE AN HONEST MAN & YOU KNOW THE WORD - BUT IT IS A HUGE LIE THAT THESE WOMEN - DO NOT HAVE GIGANTIC EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS. IT IS ALSO NOT TRUE TO INSINUATE THAT THOSE PROBLEMS ARE NOT REALLY PROBLEMS 0R LITTLE DANGER TO A MAN. PRETENDING THAT IS NOT TRUE IS LIKE WALKING AROUND IN CLOTHES WHICH HAVE BEEN SOAKED IN GASOLINE - AND JUST HOPING NO ONE LIGHTS A MATCH. In my professional career I have interviewed litterally thousands of men and women - in the field, in their homes and in businesses. Its not been unusual for me to interview as many as 50 in a single day. Without going into all of the details I can usually tell when a person has emotional problem - and emotional problems cause problems. From my point of view you are devaluing some truths which need to be acknowledged. Post Reply
View Profile History	Distractions Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 08:45 AM But in all of this arguement we also agree on a lot. The biggest thing we agree on is that - a Bible believing man will more than likely find a good wife here, sooner or later, not meaning to put words in your mouth but to frame it in my words. Funny thing is although I am not going to stop looking - I think theres a good chance I have already found her here -although I have little clue which one she is. Of course I am speaking about her being one of those I have already established a friendship with or at least have communitcated with. That may come as a suprise that I think so too many, but its mainly my guy feeling or intuition. Here again reading your post you say my posts (certain ones) should not be in a public forum. Who are you to decide that? That's part of my objection to your replies. I also do not think you are correct. The truth is important. Seems to me you are playing God in that. While spiritual law supercedes natural law ( and I am not speaking about Biblical ordinances) when you "leave out" important facts - that is not the truth. That is why when one testifies in a court of law they are made to affirm "The truth, THE WHOLE TRUTH and nothing but the truth". . Post Reply
View Profile History	Distractions Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 11:44 AM dear 777, your first post on this page was a very good post.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Distractions Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 09:10 PM Dear Ole Cattle, I think my second one was a whole lot better. But I have got to tell you I am puzzled that you seem to be rating my posts - as if I would give priority to your opinion over my own - or need your approval. Neither one is true. But thank you for the compliment. I gauge my behavior by the word of God - not anything esle with few exceptions. Post Reply

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