Author	Thread: Giving out persnal information
Admin	Giving out persnal information Posted : 30 Aug, 2009 12:44 AM I'm curious to know why is it that men, and it's not just on this site, are in such a hurry to meet and exchange personal information when they hardly know you? sometimes the 1st e-mail contact includes personal info. I've had conversations with men and after getting to know them better I was glad that I didn't give out any info. really What's rush? Can we just get to know eachother first? Or am I asking for too much from men which is to waite and not to try and jump into another relationship. Afterall you could really be meant for eachother if you have a little more patience. Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 12:43 PM I agree, unless your name is 'Hi" lol....we should try and give out our first name. I don't see anything wrong with sharing that information, however if someone doesn't want to give out their name or personal information, I for one would respect their decision. If you don't like their decision, with all due respect you have a choice to move on and talk to the next woman :) or man. My point being no one should have to give out any form of personal information they're not comfortable to share with others inorder to keep the person from communicating with you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 08:36 PM dear 777, i knew you wouldnt let it go. or listen. .. but please treat your sisters here with respect and not call em hot babes no more.. thats very disrespectful. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 20 Sep, 2009 12:44 PM Dear 2011 and 777.... This is not between you two gentleman :). please let's not go back and forth disagreeing with each other, as Christians......we're not perfect, we're sinners, we make mistakes and praise God we've been saved by the blood of Jesus and neither one of you is perfect, including myself. Like I've said, I personally like using real names, others may not, but am I going to force someone to change? No. Now I'm sure you're both aware that there are many mature Christian women and men on this site, & WE are all very well capable of making our own decision's and decide who we should or should not communicate with. My question was posted to get feedback from men and women about how they feel about giving out personal information, to find out how other members handle this sort of situation and to know why men and women alike are so determined to get personal information. I for one have learned a great deal from all the members that have posted their comments, including 2011 and 777 :) and I'd like to thank all of you for taking the time to reply. Now If anyone else wants to post an experience or make a suggestion please by all means go ahead, but let's not go back and forth and make anyone uncomfortable about answering a question in fear of being criticized. That's not the purpose of posting a question on a forum. You may both discuss your opinions in private without having to post it on this page. Thank you Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 20 Sep, 2009 07:49 PM dear sevanna, i apologize to you since you are uncomfortable with my response to another. although when i see someone using disrespectful speech here. i will speak up. i wont sit back and say hey its ok talk to people or about people or use disrespectful terms to others all you like. since this is a gathering of christian people here .i do believe we should act like it.. and refrain ourselves in what we say to others that may be offencive terms. i dont think ive ever seen anyone go around in a christian gathering goin hot babes hot babes hot babes.. instead the men show respect to the ladies there and refer to them as such. and bein a christian man if someone is being offencive you should tell them . and i believe in asking them nicely here first to please stop said speech... give em a chance to think and stop what theyre doing. instead of goin to the administration first and not giving a second chance.. i believe in second chances and for me everyone here can have a second chance.. but after that it goes to the administration. and they do a great job of listening and stopping offencive actions when folks wont listen to reason. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 22 Sep, 2009 11:12 AM Dear 2011, thank you for you comments and thank God there are Chrisitian man like you on this site. Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 22 Sep, 2009 01:34 PM dear sevanna, thats very kind of you. but any good comes from me is from GOD and the inbetween and the bad comes from all from me. ole cattle Post Reply
wantonandfree View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 10 Oct, 2009 02:03 AM Bottom line...Why are we here? Isn't it because we actually "feel" deep inside like God said , in the garden that "It is not good that man should be alone"? The internet is a fascinating powerful new medium of communication and along with it are many accompanying "new issues" that are inherent to the medium itself. We need to rethink a lot of our preconceptions regarding the do's and don'ts over here in the light of discovering truth, being wise, staying open while being safe and also relaxing with it all? Pretty much the same as in everything else, some will be bold and rush in where angels fear to tread, some will be plain timid and some will be...in the middle? Do we start from a "guilty till proven innocent" perspective or do we approach from an "innocent till proven guilty" perspective? It's your choice and it's merely a preference. Some have it all out there and we think ...you are bound to be hurt and yet, God made us all wonderful in our diversity. It's all about us letting God guide us and lead us down our individual paths... Post Reply

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