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Admin	First Kiss Posted : 15 Aug, 2009 02:23 PM Would any of you like it or prefer if the lady you were going to marry and you did not kiss until your wedding day? Like, your first kiss would be at your wedding ceremony. Is that something you would be willing to do? I have friends that have done this and I am just wondering. I'm gauging your opinions. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 11:44 PM YES MY SISTER SHUNA, PLEASE CREATE ANY POST YOU DESIRE, WE ARE ALL EARS. :glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 17 Aug, 2009 08:50 PM in answer to your question singlerose, i would let her start the kissing. Like i said i understand wanting to wait and more power to you guys who decide they want their first kiss on the wedding day. But for me i wouldn't want to get into a relationship where the woman didn't really show physical attraction. Yes i know there's other forms. It would bother me and make me question whether a particular woman really had that desire for me if we weren't kissing before marriage. i would not want to be in a marriage where the physical attraction only went one way. Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 18 Aug, 2009 06:17 AM thank you fury for your answer. anybody have a bad kisser story? Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 18 Aug, 2009 07:14 PM Bad kisser story...LOL - Zoe, you're hilarious!! It's honestly been so long since I kissed anyone (or anyone kissed me) that I can't even remember....do you have one Zoe? Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 18 Aug, 2009 10:06 PM I would not and could not wait either. The kiss is where i know if there is a desire for intimacy. I love kisses; the ones when he comes home from work (or vice versus), the ones when we meet for dinner out, and the ones when i've given a good presentation. And he has to be a fairly good kisser. It's a window for what is to be expected. (to be a good kisser can be learned.) poor kisser story... when in h.s., our lips didn't seem to match up, and we both wore braces... it didn't help that my friends pointed out he ate with his mouth open, afterwards, that was all i could see. :toomuch: Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 19 Aug, 2009 05:19 AM LOL, golden. well in h.s., freshmen yr. a male friend of mine liked me, but i didn't like him in that way. he insisted in giving him a chance. i said alright. bell rang, everybody went to the classrooms, except for us. we were by the lockers. so he pushed me against the locker, with his mouth wide open (like when you catch a fish with a hook) he covered my entire mouth, a little more he would have gotten my nose and chin, and rolled his tongue in circles. i immediately became grossed out, pushed him off, and threw up! we never spoke again!!! and that's my bad kisser story!! any others? God Bless, Zoe :angel: Post Reply
tristan07 View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 19 Aug, 2009 07:59 AM Yah, A few of them. Here's my problem with this whole thing. And I'll be honest. For once? yah.. NO LIE TO US ALEX!!!! anyway I've been married for almost my entire adult life. I have had a few relationships since my ex left me a year ago. I have like.. no sense of boundaries now. I mean, I know right and wrong, and I know what leads to what, but man, when you are used to *this is my woman, we just do this* It's hard to back pedal to what feels like adolescence again, you dig? Some of you have not been married, or have been single a long time, or whatever and you have had time to rebuild those walls. I havent. I have to be DAM careful about what I do. This whole kissing thing is a moot point to me. I am passion and romance incarnate most of the time. (doubt me, go read my blogs lol) And kissing is just part of the package, but MAN I have to keep the brakes on HARD, lest I fall. and please, do not take this wrong, I do not mean to be a braggart, this truth about me is not necessarily always good, it's more often a pain in the but. But here, enough about me. And I'll say this. If you are alone, with the woman of your choice, and you have not made your vows yet, there are no rings on your fingers, beware. If y our body starts to respond... you know what I mean, STOP. One thing innevitably leads to another, and sure enough, you will find yourself in a fall out shelter the next day going.. what???? And going back from going to far can often be too far to go back to. Trust me, I know. And I am not happy about it. Just go slow, don't get near a bed or anything else you can go horizontal on, make a vow before God that you will be pure together, then don't be stupid enough to put your head between your legs and kiss your tail good bye. Make sense, not mistakes. Post Reply
InGodWeTrust63 View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 19 Aug, 2009 09:17 PM not sure how i wondered over here, but i think kiss first is ok if you can stop there. make them wait for the kiss... Post Reply
InGodWeTrust63 View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 20 Aug, 2009 08:47 AM Kissing is ok for me, but i would get to know someone first for a while before i would kiss them or hold hands. I practice praying always about everything. I would avoid intimacy with someone that I wasn't meant to be with. It is best to avoid creating a connection with someone unless he's the one!! Save it for the one your going to end with. I reed: Understanding The Power & Purpose for woman by Dr. Myles Munroe, excellent book. :glow: Post Reply
ian777 View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 20 Aug, 2009 06:15 PM I'm easy either way - although I'd prefer to wait. At least wait until we were engaged; then, we'll see. But I'm game either way. No bad kissing stories - but it was sure funny reading everyone else's! Does not ever being kissed count as a bad kissing story? (Yes, I've been kissed, just asking) Ian Post Reply

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