Author	Thread: What does he really want???
Lvstigers View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 02:24 PM I met this guy through ChristianMingle. My problem is although he says he's a Christian and all the right stuff, we all know how easy it can be to deceive people via the internet. He wants to get together, we made a date to meet at a coffee shop, which he rescheduled because he 'got called in to work' that's acceptable. But there's the sexual aspect, he talks more about kissing and massages than his faith and he wants to come to my place and cook me dinner. I've told him that I want to do things God's way, which of course is through Christ, and no sex until marriage. He says he just wants to be sure we are compatible. When I said I'd rather do this safely, meaning meet in a public place, he said, something about fear and living in the box. I feel there's something fishy. Why so adamant about coming to my home? and why not take more time to get to know each other through chat etc. What's his hurry? He hasn't even asked me any questions really. What do you all think. Post Reply
pattarom2009 View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 07:32 AM "god is my first love and must be hers also . i live in the world but im not of it.im a humble man who has seen alot of pain and misfortune. but now i truly know what is most important . i love to love and be loved . thankyou for taking the time to read my profile. could you relocate ask, yourself hummmm (a womens heart should be so hidden in christ that a man must first seek him out to find her)" Sounds like he may have just came to Christ, but may not understand what that really means. It's not as simple as I prayed a prayer one time and now I'm saved. You have to pick up your cross and live in repentance. It's more than clich�s you find on the back of a T-shirt. The old self dies and you learn to hate the sin you used to love. I believe the holy spirit has led you in the right direction on this one. Good luck with the next one! Post Reply
Lvstigers View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 18 Aug, 2009 12:31 PM Thank you :glow: Post Reply
heartsonfire View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 3 Sep, 2009 10:26 AM Ok, here is a guy wading in... STAY AWAY! ALL HE WANTS IS SEX... Any guy who is geruine in his faith will have enough love for God to respect His boundaries and yours. Always err on the side of caution! God bless in your search! Kevin Post Reply
View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 4 Sep, 2009 09:59 PM oviously he does't wantthe same things you want or you would not be uncomfortable with Hm. You may knowjut by talking t someone a while who the realy are. I you arE Seeing red flags then run, baby, run My neighbor meT a gUy on chrisTian site and made big mistaKe of letting HIm comet to her house because he talkedabouting a christian and how thatwas the most important thing to his life. HE RAPED HER AND RAN ON FOOT. POLICE CAUGHT HIM THANk GOD. SHE WENT ON NEW IN LOUSIVLLE, KY (WITH FaCE BLURED OUT) WITHSOME OTHERS TO WarN YOUNG (Or OLD) WOMEN OF THIS BIG NO NO. ALWAYS PRAY FORGOD'S LEADIG ANYTHING YU DO AND HE WILL SPEAK T YOU AND PROECT YOU. Post Reply
agia09 View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 4 Nov, 2009 05:26 AM You have to be friends first then comes trust and respect. A Godly Man would put Christ first in the relationship as I see it He has not and I would not meet with him. God has someone for you and you will have no doubts when He allows this person to come into your life. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 14 Dec, 2009 01:51 PM I have had some similar experiences. My best advice to you would be to in a Christian way let him go. I am in the same boat about recommiting my life to Christ. I am not saint by any means but we deserve to date someone who respects us and our wishes. No matter how you rationalize it , he is not going to be good for you . Post Reply
View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 12 Jan, 2010 05:31 PM Run away fast, get a restraining order if necessary. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 18 Feb, 2010 06:14 AM I am far from being very knowledgeable about dating since I married young and stayed married long enough to lose track of the dating world. But I do have a mother's heart and I can sense danger coming toward my little brood. If you see this man in your home you will be putting yourself in harms way. There is a reason behind every action we take. His insistence on where to meet tells His. Just one suggestion: On your profile you state that you are "looking for anything". That might stir up wrong ideas in a man's mind. I would change that. Post Reply
elainehuf View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 28 Apr, 2010 07:16 AM Why do you even correspond with this "jerk?" He should be totally off limits with no more respond or explanations. He is after only one thing....believe me, young friend! Post Reply
raysons View Profile History	What does he really want??? Posted : 21 May, 2010 11:12 AM Think out of the box. Who is he kidding. Already trying to control you. It will only get worse. Put him in a box and ship him away. God bless. Post Reply

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