Author	Thread: Talking to multiple women??
luvinpray View Profile History	Talking to multiple women?? Posted : 7 Aug, 2014 03:47 PM Guys, I know this is online dating, so many of you might be talking to multiple women. But here is my situation. Sunday I met a guy at a singles church group. I had seen him before, but never talked to him until then. We chatted and I ended up having a bible study tuesday and he showed up. Well after the bible study he asked me if I wanted to get dinner with him. We went to a restaruant and ate, and he payed. He opened doors, and was very gentlemen like. Well Last night we went to dinner for a second time. I enjoyed the time mostly, I think he is a nice guy, but his perspective on dating is not like mine. He told me that what we were doing wasn't a date. We were just friends and getting to know each other. He also told me that he has two other lady friends he is getting to know. One he ended up meeting up with after me. (That's a whole other story..because he wants more with her but she won't commit). So I told him I'm not interested in this game he is playing. So my question is, Guys is it normal to date like this? He is not kissing girls, or hooking up with him. But he is talking to 3 different girls. Sometimes texting them at the same time, etc. IDK just seems to me like he doesn't know what he wants, and he is just enjoying the attention? He told me that I should "talk" to multiple men, just be friends and get to know them before being serious. I don't think I have it in me to do that. On the one hand I believe God will bring me my mate at the right time. (This man doesn't believe that). On the other hand I do agree you need to be more sociable and build friendships. I guess I still have a lot to learn about men. lol. Post Reply
thoughtbubble View Profile History	Talking to multiple women?? Posted : 1 Oct, 2014 07:30 PM I personally dont categorize going out to lunch/dinner as a date, unless the guy said it literally. And since its not a date, it is just someone treating me to good food and witty conversations. Never ever jump into a conclusion without a pun-achute. Post Reply
luvinpray View Profile History	Talking to multiple women?? Posted : 18 Oct, 2014 05:59 AM Sorry I didn't respond back to this post. I have been quite busy with work and school. Update on him. He actually apologized to me, and told me that he was not over her yet. He has cut it off completely with her now, because he realized how his relationship with her was effecting getting to know any other women. She didn't want to commit, and just wanted to string him a long. Long story short, we are now good friends. We don't hang out one on one anymore, but we talk at church, and in group settings. Post Reply
View Profile History	Talking to multiple women?? Posted : 25 Dec, 2014 06:13 AM This happened to me too before. He's a foreigner living in our country. We met in other dating site and he get my number and text me. He said that he wanted to meet me and go on a date. This happened last year almost Christmas I have a scheduled to attend a Christmas party in our church so I declined his invitation. Next morning I apologized to him saying that I am sorry for not meeting him because of sort of things I need to do. He message me back and said that I'm not the only girl he invite that time, we are three he invited he said that the two women he invites comes and I'm the only one didn't. I was shocked to know this because I thought he was only interested to me. I imagined my self being there with two women too it seems like we're a candidate for getting the guy attention. He is also my friend in Facebook before and I saw some of his post in his wall was a two women he dated that time and they are both arguing and fighting against that guy. Whew! I unfriendly him in my Facebook list and didn't talk this guy ever again. Those guys are not serious and don't know what they want. I think they like more women around them. It's so sad that he's also a Christian. :( Post Reply

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