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Posted : 29 Apr, 2014 08:17 PM

Some of you may hate me for this, but why the heck are there so many of you that want children? o.O ? why ? Oh and why is sooo may guys romantic now a days? XP maybe im just the only odd ball that feels this way? ^^'

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Posted : 5 May, 2014 08:47 PM

@Apostelle you say the only reason to get married is to have children? Then why get married?

If everything else provided by marriage is absolutely unnecessary then you can just adopt children and avoid the extra hassle.

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Posted : 5 May, 2014 09:11 PM

I have thought seriously about adoption. However, until an infertile couple finds out they cant have children, they still try to have biological children.



I would prefer to have children that were mine biologically, but adopted is a viable option. Ive ruled nothing out.

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Posted : 5 May, 2014 10:48 PM

I just want to say something so there is no more argument here. Because you are my brother in Christ, I'm not gonna really continue with this debate. You and I have very different views, but I did ask for your honest opinion in the matter so thank you. ^-^ very much so.

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Posted : 6 May, 2014 05:29 AM

Youre welcome, Spooky. I really do hope you find happiness. God bless.

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Posted : 8 May, 2014 04:05 PM

spooky:

I very much admire people who decide they, for what ever reason decide, they do not want children and/or would not make good parents. It is a Hard decision to make.

I have fostered kids for years, and it is so sad to see people who should have NEVER had children, and yet they have them.

Thank GOD for people who think about it carefully, and decide NOT to become parents!

PS: I'm not bitter, and have two beautiful kids, and a beautiful grandson.

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Posted : 11 May, 2014 01:06 PM

Thank you very much hubbarddebra99 ^-^ . That was a very nice thing to say. ^^

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Posted : 11 May, 2014 01:13 PM

Oh and ty sweethumblepie for that. ^^' I try not to let things like that bother me and I also didnt see anything in the bible that requires women to have children.

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Posted : 11 May, 2014 03:10 PM

Spooky, you're not alone in your thinking. I would rather be a father to the fatherless, than procreate and bring a child into this world. Where I live, there's a disproportionate number of single mothers. It's a crying shame..



This world is broken, and it's not going to be fixed. The days are evil; don't matter how affluent someone might be, there's no getting away from it, the days of Noah are going to revisit us all. I'm not sure if there is any solid justification to put down roots (have children) in a world that shall be burned up. Better to concentrate on obtaining a Kingdom mindset, with eternal treasures.



Biological reproduction is a gift, but a woman doesn't have to give birth to be blessed. Don't bow to any social pressure that'll try and suggest otherwise. God bless.

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Posted : 11 May, 2014 03:40 PM

Thank you very much Sevendust, I dont plan on bowing to anything but God. And yes the days are evil, thats why if anything I would rather adopt than to bring a child into this world. Why would I? Its awful here. :<

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