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Your thought on this please..?
Posted : 13 Jan, 2014 10:53 PM

John and Restassured



Greetings my fellow brothers in Christ. Can I humbly ask you to share your thoughts on the following:



It's a continuation of a question I asked Joy on the ladies forum. I'd like to get a man's perspective on the same two questions. The first question is:

* Let's say you do meet a fellow of your kind inperson. She has almost all your requirements from a lady, she only lacks this one important quality... Salvation. She loves God though she doesn't know that she's a lost soul. Unless one avails him/her self in ushering her in how to go about accepting Christ as her personal savor. It doesn't necessarily have to be you pursuing this ministry, fore it may come across as if you did it so you can be in a relationship with her without guilt.



Will you make effort of interceding for her that she gets saved NOT only so you can enjoy a relationship with her, but for the sake of a lost soul won to Christ?

Or you'll just give up on her and go for the next saved lady who also doesn't meet all your requirements, the only advantage is that she's saved. With her you won't have to wait in prayer till she gets saved?

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2014 07:53 PM

"Thanks again! I am enjoying hearing back from you"

You most welcome dear,

Was a wonderful experience interacting with you too. And thank you for every post you've writen back to me on. Do make it a habit to share your thoughts on what I ask if at all you do have something to share ofcourse



In regard with this one that you like.... Take the matter to God as you've already said that "You need Him to guide your steps"

I somehow believe that some of us here our possible mates are still wondering away from God. Most probably searching for us in wrong places just like we're currently searching for them in right places (church and christian dating sites) when they haven't positioned themselves for God to lead them to us. It's a two way traffic from both parties



Pray about it

You'll be amazed at what God reveals even if he still wonders away from God. Only He knows if his really worth your effort in waiting through prayer for him or not. I recently learned that we ladies should search ourselves too if we are right mates for guys we are praying for. Sand told me that guys that we broke up with could not been 'bad' guys, they were just not good for us. I then windered if things could not have been the other way around in a sense that: we ladies were not as bad as they made us to be, we were just not good for them. Therefore there were always those misunderstings through arguments when the main issue was that, the lady wasn't bad but not good for that specific guy.



What is your thought on this?

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2014 08:24 PM

i am not a guy but if we stick with the bible we cant go wrong the bible talks about being unevenly yoke very important when you choose someone

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Posted : 7 Mar, 2014 10:13 AM

Please read my reply to Algomaboy,



I don't think there's another explination of how I meant this question.

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