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Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 05:51 AM

7Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.



1 Peter 3:7



I would like to ask both men and Ladies what practically do you see this " understanding" Peter is telling us men to have?





For you ladies specifically what significance does a man understanding have for you?

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 08:06 PM

Are you trying to prove this to yourself?

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 08:17 PM

Your last post is not an example of living this out practically...



Be not a witness against your neighbor without cause, and do not deceive with your lips. Proverbs 24:28

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 09:51 PM

Michael, you said: "If you forget GUD. I started this thread entitled understanding. So can you GUD give me a practical expression in your life with a woman concerning understanding?"



I would like to provide a practical example which will illustrate:



1. That I can provide a practical example of understanding.

2. That I can do so without including Scripture. ( just for you)

3. That I actually live according to my practical example.

4. That practically speaking, you lack a demonstrable understanding of how to practice understanding practically.



In my example LTM, I will use you as the woman in my life. I have demonstrated practically that I understand what you write here in the forum (setting aside all of the internal confusion that is communicated in your posts). How have I done this?

By thoroughly reading your posts, digesting your thoughts, and then thoughtfully responding to your comments using your own words and often times quoting you verbatim. It shows that I take the time to listen to the things that you are saying currently, remember thoughts you have expressed previously (often times days and even weeks ago), and try to communicate with you in your own language (minus the horrific grammar and spelling of course). It's like you telling me something and then you asking me, "now what did I just say?" and then me repeating your thoughts back to you in similar terms. It shows that I have listened and understood.



This has been my practice with you as it is with everyone in my life.



You on the other hand continuously show that you lack any understanding of how to demonstrate understanding practically. How have you done this? By continuously being dismissive of the things that I have said, ignoring my comments and questions completely, and misrepresenting my words in dialogue, etc. Look at our interaction page after page. It bares this out.



In addition, you have posted responses that are entirely off-topic. Just recently, I spoke to you in a post about authority and headship and you responded with an entire post about forgiveness. Proving you didn't hear a word that I said. That doesn't demonstrate any understanding. What about your comments that nobody should try to teach you anything and that I was a "waste of your time"? Does that show good communication and understanding? Does that show wisdom and humility?



In summary, I cannot take you seriously either Biblically or practically and nor should anyone else until you have proven yourself competent on either level.

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 04:29 AM

Guys,



I would kindly ask you to keep on focus about this thread and display some kindness for those who might like to participate.



Here is your oppertunity to teach concerning a husband dwelling with his wife according to understanding.



Do you have anything positive to contribute?

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 04:39 AM

Ladies,



What does understanding look like for you in relationship and how important is it for you? Have you ever considered it?

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 04:43 AM

You repeatedly say that TBK doesn't try to understand. He then shows he does understand and breaks it down to show that you don't truly live in an understanding way. Then you just ignore. Now, why should anyone try to understand you? You don't want people to no understand you and then you ignore when people show they do understand you. What kind of man is this?

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 04:56 AM

This thread is about Husbands understanding their wives.



Would you like to give an example or teach on this thread about this?



As a man what does it look like to you to be understanding to a woman?

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 05:36 AM

I will tell you that a man who cannot display understanding in any other aspect of his life is not someone I would trust to live in an understanding way with his wife. So my question is what makes you capable of living in an understanding way with your future wife, but not with believers?

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 05:41 AM

Your question is not the topic of this thread. Are you going to provide anything positive that actually has to do with this thread?



Do you understand the question of this thread?



I am trying to discuss about scripture and you keep making it about me. Why?

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 05:45 AM

It's relevant because I am saying you are not qualified to be asking this question, practically speaking. It's not the life you live. Unless you are trying to learn from others to change the current track your life is on(which I doubt) then you have no business asking this.

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