Author	Thread: 'Drama'
Admin	'Drama' Posted : 21 Sep, 2012 10:24 AM One thing I keep seeing consistently, when I read through these profiles, is that men are looking for women with 'NO DRAMA'. So, I'm curious... how do men define 'drama'? Post Reply
View Profile History	'Drama' Posted : 26 Sep, 2012 07:45 PM Everyone has a past/baggage. It's girls who START drama guys have no interest in. Post Reply
seaglass28 View Profile History	'Drama' Posted : 27 Sep, 2012 08:31 AM Kudos to both M(Letthismind2) and to andr5550. Very well said. And to the men who wants to find a woman with out drama, good luck finding one.. ;P Post Reply
andr5550 View Profile History	'Drama' Posted : 27 Sep, 2012 11:18 AM I do not have one male friend who does not have his own issues that has some how effected our friendship, or there relationships with their girlfriends. And I am not saying it is a bad thing, it is better talk about it and deal with it the let is build up and only realize you have a problem when you are 40 years old and start having a mid life crisis. What you may see is drama, is to others a reality of life. We all deal with issues differently, some people keep it all in and others have to let it out. The point of the matter is that we all have drama, every single person in this world and it effects everyone of us, even if we aren't aware. The way we act, the way we look at life, the things we say and the things we do. Yes obviously there are some people who have more drama then others but it has nothing to do with what sex you are. Post Reply
View Profile History	'Drama' Posted : 28 Sep, 2012 06:32 PM I'm starting to wonder if we're even talking about the same thing. What's your definition of drama? Cuz to me it's women who perpetually complains about everything non-stop, flies off the handle over things I can't even imagine as annoying, always tries to make people jealous, always negative and running you down, etc. Good luck finding a guy who likes that. Post Reply
KiwiMav View Profile History	'Drama' Posted : 30 Sep, 2012 01:39 PM Great question! Drama may simply be a another way of saying, divorced, children, interfering family or lady thats chilled out or whatever. But I think personally it is a personal perspective, but that is not to diminish it. Also everyone has a story; men and woman. Or rather as somebody said earlier men don't like a woman , who STARTS drama(nevermind a woman - who likes it when ANYBODY starts drama :S). But if you don't have conflict or drama in your life then you probably aren't hanging out with enough people. As MsMarvel said its how you deal with it that separates the Men from the boys. I have friends who have gone out with ladies who it seems love a crazy train. But after getting to know them better it is usually the result of insecurities. And these are aspects that need to be dealt with in any relationship. If you can't open yourself up and be transparent, - at least with someone (which I would say would be a minimum standard of your marriage partner), then they will always like boils, always causing pressure, waiting to erupt. When they do erupt the issue isn't about the issue, leaving you thinking whats this drama about... Post Reply

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