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GraceAndKindness

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What A Woman Wants
Posted : 5 Jun, 2012 03:48 PM

Ok, so I imagened myself in a room with 50 men, at the ready to answer the one question I've always wanted to ask.



So, I came up with "what are your top 3 qualities sought in a woman" right.. but then I thought, that question has probably been asked here several times right?



So then I thought, what if I flipped that around a bit, and came up with this:



What are the top 3 qualiities you'd prefer a woman of your interest to desire in a man...



Hopefully this is a 'fresh' question.

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Samsonoxide

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What A Woman Wants
Posted : 22 Jun, 2012 09:44 AM

1) a relationship with God that has priority in his life

2) the will to constantly strive to be a better person

3) the ability to communicate effectively and honestly

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What A Woman Wants
Posted : 25 Jun, 2012 05:39 PM

1. has a relationship with God.

2. must want to get along with me.

3. wants to have kids.

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Posted : 28 Jun, 2012 05:04 AM

Thanks for the question.



I am going to draw from scripture and what God has told men to do in marriage.



A woman would want her man to have this quality. To dwell with her according to understanding.



Being that women are much more relational than we men and woman desires her man to want to understand and to understand her as a woman. This means a man needs to take time to think about his woman time with his woman. One of the things that used to frustrate me about women is the phrase I dont know. When I asked what they were thinking or feeling.



I have learned a woman wants a man to try being sensitive to what she is feeling and communicate this to her in a loving manner.





The second thing a woman wouuld be looking for in a man is for him to cherish her. See her as glorious.



A wife doesnt want to feel like she is competing with another women. In her mind she already has these insecurities concerning her immage and she needs her man to look at her with not blinders on but with unconditional acceptance of her looks. She wants her man to nottice her and the small changes she makes in her appearence. This is not vanity for her but for her it is a expression that she still has her mans eyes and his eye has not wandered.



I believe the third is a woman wants her man to appreciate her mind. Women love to give and what they love to give is advice and counsel. It is their natural heart of love that makes them to do this.



A woman knows a man is strong when he can listen to his woman and recieve her and not become offended by her attempts to help guide the family. She knows he is strong and secure.



So for me i believe a woman wants her man to want in her to appreciate and love unconditionally her for her.

1) soul or emotion

2) Body

3) Mind



These three things make up a whole woman. A woman wants to be loved in wholeness.



How did i do?

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GraceAndKindness

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Posted : 30 Jun, 2012 06:56 AM

Only because you ask LetThisMind, I think you get an A..

But let me ask you this, I've recently been looking at teachings from the MacDonald's on temperament (Jesus had both naturally) Extra/Introvert. So perhaps when a women leans on the "I don�t' know" answer; she may be introverted, meaning, she may need to take time to think about the issue, she's not comfortable making on the spot decisions, even when the question at hand does not necessarily require a response that would be considered a 'decision', point is she has to make a 'choice' or give her opinion. This make sense, yes? Off subject, well kind of�

Ooh, Soul/Emotion, Mind and Body.. I get it!!! Ok, ok, A+

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Posted : 3 Jul, 2012 06:16 AM

Yes, GnK.....



We all need time to process our thoughts and emotions :)



Learning to be patient with oneanother and trust God in leading according to His Spirit really takes patience some times, does it not?

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