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GenuineBeauty

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 06:58 AM

Why is being a virgin a turn-off for most men? I believe that sex was created by God to be enjoyed within marriage, not with every person you date.

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 05:39 AM

But you added nothing to the discussion. She said "most men aren't Christians" and you used that as a springboard to ramble on and on and make yourself look spiritual by throwing around verses that only prove her point.



SHE MADE HER POINT FINE WITHOUT YOUR (attempt at) HELP.



Come down to a normal conversational level or stop posting. It doesn't contribute anything and it isn't helpful.

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 05:50 AM

Dear Devoted love..



I don't really see what your trying to say. You want me to get a clear Biblical understanding. Well, to tell you honestly I'm not

the kind of person who memorized lots of verses. But I know the exact meaning of every word that I said. You know what, even though you memorized all the verses in the Bible it doesn't mean that you comprehend them all well. I don't know what's your real understanding about your so called "righteous judgement". I am not speaking here because I was hurt. I am opposing to those negative comments because in my belief you are getting it wrongly. And please don't always used the name of God for your own benefits. Well, correct me if I'm wrong but it seems to me that you are always saying "what the Lord said", maybe your just afraid that the blame will put on you because of your unrighteous judgement.I know it is always good to follow God in every step you want to take in your life. But it is just for someone who knows the exact meaning of God's words not for those who just good in memorizing or should I say good in copying without understanding. Real Christian are responsible enough of every word they said.

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 05:57 AM

Dear sister godsgirl.

Thank you so much for seeing my good insights in my post. God bless you always!!



:glow::angel:

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 06:19 AM

One more thing Devotedlove, your accusing me that I was judging you people based on my perception and emotion. Well, by posting that we are promiscuous by just posting our ideas about these topic. Who is judging based in their perception in the first place? Of course I would react from your chastisement because you are not the people who has the right to chastise me. And please stop reacting as if you just care of our religious belief because it doesn't show at all. You just want to show us that your religious person and as if you know a lot. I felt sorry for you!

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 07:18 AM

Thank you Liz and Godsgirl for your words of hostility, anger, and disgust. Your comments truly strengthen my faith, and give me joy in Christ. For as you speak, I am comforted by the Holy Spirit with the words of Jesus:



Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness� sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.

Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you. Matt 5:10-12 :yay: :applause: :yay: :peace:



If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated

you. If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.

Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his Lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also. But all these things will they do unto you for my name�s sake, because they know not him that sent me. John 15:18-21



Grace to you!!! God bless: waving: :peace:

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 07:28 AM

Someone disagreeing with you on an internet forum isn't persecution, so unfortunately, you get no points with God for it. People are being killed for their faith around the world, and two Christians disagreeing with your perversion of the Bible doesn't really rate in comparison. The verses about persecution also warn Christians to make sure their actions are right, so I'd be careful how you sling those around.

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 09:08 AM

devotedlove

1 Corinthians 13

1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. 13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

John13: 34 �A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.�

Your devotion to the God of love is reflected in your love, not your words of knowledge.

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 11:10 AM

I see a lot of people are saying that it shouldn't be talked about and that it should be kept a secret.



WHY ON EARTH WOULD BEING A VIRGIN NEED TO BE KEPT A SECRET?

I don't think there is one logical reason. If anything, it should be talked about. I think the more people know there are still people willing to wait to have sex the better. Peer pressure is a huge thing for people my age, and I love knowing there are people that are waiting until marriage like myself.



I think it's wrong to talk about how great sex is and to talk about your own sexual encounters. It's encouraging to know there are virgins out there besides me. It's not because I can't "get any" because I probably could if I wanted to. I want to not only respect myself, but respect my future wife by saving it for her.

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 11:37 AM

I agree lpm10. Also, if being a virgin is a turn-off for men, then I want to avoid those men.

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Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 11:37 AM

What I find more of a turn-off from people discussing who is or who isn't virginal....would be the self serving comments by YOU Devoted--anyone reading your posts can quite clearly see your attempts at manipulating the reader by misplaced self serving pious remarks made to denounce the other responders as angry or some how less worthy as Christians. Telling Godsgirl to show HIM more respect...did not bode well with me or I daresay anyone else reading your "holier-than-thou" rhetoric. If anyone's comments were embarrassing to them self, it was yours. It's very telling when one chastises others for a differing opinion labeling them as angry or misguided in their judgment then turning around and blessing them, lol.

As Newt Gingrich recently said to Mitt Romney--"Drop the pious Baloney!"

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