Author	Thread: Whats the best way...
MyCrownIsGod View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 12 Oct, 2011 09:43 AM For a lady to show she is interested in a man without him thinking she is too forward or pushy or whatever? I was always raised to believe that if a man was really interested, he would pursue you...but I know not everyone feels that way. So, would you prefer first contact? If so, why? Or should a lady send the first message/wink? Post Reply
Statie View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 12:53 AM hmmm...back on topic? I don't believe the topic is what kind of body shape you prefer in a woman MiracleManiac -- :ROFL: The topic is who should make the first contact the male or the female. Since you aren't capable of getting back on topic, I will. Overall, I don't think it matters who makes the first contact. Though I too was raised with a more traditional view of male and female roles, I'm not so steeped into tradition that I wouldn't look favorably upon a female that makes the first move by winking or messaging me. The only way I would actually begin to think a woman is too pushy or too forward would be if she did in fact bring her interest to my attention and I declined that interest as not mirroring my own and then if she kept on contacting me. Women are pretty savvy individuals and in my experience they usually don't waste their time barking up the wrong tree -lol. There are of course exceptions to that rule. Stalkers come in both genders. Post Reply
MyCrownIsGod View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 12:59 AM I'm not so bold as to keep pursuing a man who told me he wasn't interested. LOL...It's true...there are a lot of female stalkers too. I never really understood how people could do that to others. Thanks for getting back on topic guys. :) I'd love to hear from others too. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 07:56 AM Don't mind Statie he's a Catholic. :glow: Post Reply
MyCrownIsGod View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 09:09 AM Statie, please, just ignore him. Don't let him goad you into another childish debate. I will pray for you, Miracle Man, for humbleness, maturity, grace, wisdom and forgiveness. Until you develop a healthy dose of these qualities, please feel free to totally ignore any future posts of mine. Thanks. I wish I could just delete this discussion completely...oh well. LOL I have better things to do with my time than be a referee. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 10:24 AM Oh Please. He's the one starting the childish debates:dunce: Post Reply
View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 10:27 AM And you are welcome to pray for me although you would most likely be praying about the wrong thing MyCrownIsGod. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 11:54 AM For me I would want her to be friendly. I would also want her to be honest and say something like, "Of course I'm interested and of course I'm scouting around, and of course you are too." Pretending there is no self-interest involved wouldn't work. I know I am self-interested too. Once the honest statement is acknowledged I would want to let it go and start off by trying to be friends. Friendship is important and even if it doesn't lead to marriage, we will still have gained each other as friends. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 01:46 PM That is an intelligent response - although its a little much (although I have done the same thing before) because it assumes mutual attraction. That is really for stage two in the process. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 01:50 PM Incidentally, MyCrownIsGod, whether you realize it or not I have only showed you courtesy, honor and respect. Rather than disrespect me here - if you have something you think I need to hear you can contact me directly even if you have to change your profile settings or age for just a minute. That would be the right thing to do. Post Reply
View Profile History	Whats the best way... Posted : 15 Oct, 2011 08:09 AM STATIE - MY DOG IS SMARTER THAN YOU. WHAT A WUSS. YOU CAN CONTACT ME DIRECTLY IF YU GOT THE GUTS Post Reply

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