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Please read! What do you men think?
Posted : 13 Apr, 2011 03:48 PM

I notice that women (not all of-course) see men (in general mind you) as not sensitive, not very smart, thick skin (no words/rejection can penetrate), not emotional, etc...



What do you men think about this?



I was reading a WONDERFUL book called "the proper care and feeding of husbands" that say specifically what is the difference between men and women, what goes through their heads, how they want to be treated, etc...



But from you men personally, can you tell us women what you want us to know about you? cos obviously women and men are different, cos God made us so, we are both programmed (per se) differently, and our roles are different.



I've heard that a mans version of love is when their woman respects/trusts them... what are your thoughts on all of this? Thanks! :)

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Posted : 15 Apr, 2011 12:31 PM

I don't think men are really that different from women. I think men and women are trained by society to be very different when they shouldn't be.



As for me, I'm sensitive (I keep other people's feelings in mind. I'm not necessarily easily offended though), I'm smart, and there are quite a few times during church services where I had tears start to well up.



So many guys are into sports, drinking, and sex because society has trained them to believe that that is what a "man" is about, which really is just a bunch of garbage.



What would I want women to know? Don't settle for a stereotypical man. If you do, you might just get shallow results. And perhaps research how to counteract society's push on little boys to act in the undesirable ways we see today, and work to change that negative impact from society so the next generation of boys doesn't have to grow up like that.

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 04:01 AM

In all of my time here on CDFF,I've never seen so many posts written on here that's so VERY LONG!Thanks guys for educating me!:glow::glow::applause::applause::applause:

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 04:32 AM

I may be being unfair, but I believe guys are less led by their emotions and "how they feel" than women. We don't feel it any less, but we can set aside our feelings in order to get the job done.



We also don't talk much, unless there's something we want to share or know.

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