Author	Thread: STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!!
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 13 Apr, 2011 08:24 AM Hi!!!! Not trying to be mean, just curious. Why do you guys wink at the women you're interested in on this site? Would you wink in "real life", if you were in person? I know it's an option, but why use it...lol.... Why not just inbox the person and say, Hi, how are you? AND THE BIGGEST QUESTION OF ALL IS....WHY DO Y'ALL VIEW SOMEBODY 8 TIMES AND NOT SAY A WORD??? JUST LOOKING AND NOT SENDING A MESSAGE. STOP LOOKIN AND NOT SAYIN ANYTHING!!!!!!!!! This is not the club, or a shopping mall...lol, this is a Christian forum. If you see something you like, be it attraction or a spirit-filled profile, just say something. Are you waiting for the woman to say something first to see if she's interested? Once again, I hope I don't sound mad..haha...Just wondering! Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:49 AM ND1612, I agree.... "My guys also deal with self confidence issues so they will maybe look at your profile and back away. Other guys are just creeps. haha. So I wouldn't read into the whole view count thing too much." BINGO! Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:49 AM ND1612, I agree.... "My guys also deal with self confidence issues so they will maybe look at your profile and back away. Other guys are just creeps. haha. So I wouldn't read into the whole view count thing too much." BINGO! Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:52 AM DKJ255, I kind of agree.... "I wonder how many people both on this site and in real life are still waiting for 'the other' to make the first move? WAKE UP FOLKS! it may *never* happen because YOU were supposed to be the one to initiate things. If you want to know them more, walk up to them and talk to them. What's the worst that can happen?! You won't become *more* single if things don't work out after all... " Idk if women should initiate though. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtaineth favor from the Lord. Find is an action word....um....men need to learn how to step up to the plate. But I see where you're coming from. Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:53 AM Twosparrows, I'm not mad. I was just curious! Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:56 AM vkwv1, I agree with you. I guess smile does sound a little better. Maybe they are shy. The reason it kinda bothers me is because, I'm not really all that shy, so if they want me to say something first, I suppose I could. Just feel like I shouldn't have to. Question though...how can you be shy while you're behind a computer? Unless you mean they think they may be rejected so they're reluctant or something. I guess. Anyway, thanks for your response! Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:58 AM soluvable, I do too sometimes. I guess I just want them to say something. I get that in person, too. lol I'm a really nice person, and I don't mind speaking and getting to know people, I just think it's so High School-ish to view someone 7,8,9 times and not say anything. Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:59 AM LSUsports, haha. That was cute lol Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 10:02 AM Pixy, you get what I'm saying. Thank goodness someone does. I've since found out from some of the viewers and winkers lol that they do it because they want me to say something to them because either they're not in my preferred groups (age, location, etc.) Still though...lol Post Reply
View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 03:26 PM I'm not claiming to right, and God had to work on me to give me the courage to step up the bar and make the first move. I'm just offering my opinion, which tallies with what I've heard other men say too. Here's one you may have heard before: "A flood was threatening a small town and everyone was leaving for safety except one man who said, "God will save me. I have faith." As the water level rose a jeep came to rescue him, the man refused, saying "God will save me. I have faith." As the water level rose further, he went up to the second storey, and a boat came to help him. Again he refused to go, replying, "God will save me. I have faith." The water kept rising and the man climbed on to the roof. A helicopter came to rescue him, but he said, "God will save me. I have faith." Well, finally he drowned. :angel: When he reached his Maker he angrily questioned, "I had complete faith in you. Why did you ignore my prayers and let me drown?" The Lord replied, "Who do you think sent you the jeep, the boat, and the helicopter?":rolleyes: Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	STOP LOOKIN AT ME!!! Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 08:53 PM dkj255, I guess you have a point. Post Reply

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