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confused and searching
Posted : 24 Mar, 2011 04:16 AM

hello i was wondering do nice and upstanding men exist because i feel all the good ones are taken or dont see all the differant women in this world



can anyone prove me that good men are real and that some of them single



i am sick of tears and pain



thank you for taking time out to read this

have a good week

bless

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confused and searching
Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 01:11 PM

I've had to learn the hard way that any desire we have for a spouse has to be a far, far second to our desire for Christ. Trying to fill the hole in our hearts with a spouse is like trying to fill the hole in a donut with something other than a donut hole.

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Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 05:45 PM

I need to clarify what it is I meant above, since I forgot to earlier... :rolleyes:



If you read the Bible passage I quoted, I didn't mean that we have to put sackcloth on and fast as Jehoshaphat did. What my point was is that God wants us to turn to Him wholeheartedly.

As with Jehoshaphat, God isn't interested in us thinking up a better strategy or plan for whatever it is we're facing - in your case, desiring a spouse.

Instead, He is interested in our complete reliance upon Him and HIS plan. And He is interested in us loving Him with all of our heart, soul and strength....the same way that we are hoping to be loved by someone else :)

God is wanting us to treat Him, love Him and desire Him in the same way that we would hope to be loved and desired by another :winksmile:



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