Author	Thread: How much?
Admin	How much? Posted : 15 Mar, 2011 08:46 AM So I'm reading Dave Barry's book Complete Guide To Guys and its cracking me up :ROFL: I have a question though. People always say that guys really don't know what girls are thinking or trying to express. I've heard this alot from different articles by psychologists, and marriage counselors. Guys and girls are in different universes I'm told. But I wonder... I've met some guys who seem to know me better than I know myself... I've met some men who said they couldn't read me at all...and some men say I was like a ziplock bag, I keep everything in but you could see right through me!!! Agh!! Anyway, this really isn't that important, but since I'm reading this book on how guys just don't have a clue... I thought to ask them and find out for myself. Hope you have a nice day!! :D God bless! Post Reply
View Profile History	How much? Posted : 24 Mar, 2011 10:33 AM I think I might chime in on this on. haha. (For my first post btw) I agree with all of you. haha Let me clarify. Everything that is said is part of the bigger picture. Certain guys don't understand sometimes because they simply don't care. I am not trying to be harsh, but the truth is that guys are emotional being just as much as girls are regardless of how much we show it or admit it. Which leads into the statement about how good guy friends and good girl friend don't always date or whatever because of the chemistry. It is not say that they don't care about each other, but there is one thing that is basic to nature, attraction. Certain people are drawn to each other on sometimes a spiritual level and they may not even be right for each other, but the connection is there and there is a purpose for it. When a connection like that happens you feel like you know that person almost better than yourself and you can almost tell exactly how they would act before they do. The other part to this is the fact that guys may care, but the problem is that they don't pay attention. They may listen, but be thinking about something else completely and every human is guilty of that. I just know, speaking as a guy, that we have associative thoughts. So when in Live's example of of the guy thinking about is oil, it is not he didn't care or was upset by the relationship, but he tied to something that he didn't do. In that case he would have to refocus and ask her to repeat what she kindly or remember and apologize for getting distracted. That's my two cents on this. If those components don't work together, then there is a communication breach. PS - One thing I have found helps with the focus is to write things down, a to-do list if you will. I hope that helps some. Haha. :) Post Reply

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