Author	Thread: Some guys don't get it...
Admin	Some guys don't get it... Posted : 8 Mar, 2011 04:10 PM ...or isi it just me? Two of the guys I've been with (not from here) have been guys who expect their partners to take care of them. It's been either that, or they expect their partner to do things that she is not able to do or is forbidden by Scripture from doing. And then, when the lady objects, he either lays a guilt trip on her or goes into a raging tirade. Did I do something wrong? Post Reply
View Profile History	Some guys don't get it... Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 05:14 PM hey i get it too!! just got out of a relationship that was the other way around so its not just a guy thing.... sometimes women dont get it either...:waving: Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Some guys don't get it... Posted : 11 Mar, 2011 11:32 AM hehe...silly i'm gonna message you Post Reply
View Profile History	Some guys don't get it... Posted : 13 Mar, 2011 06:25 PM That ok Chevy,at least we wo'nt miss it! lol!:laugh: Anyway,when i first read this,i was wondering at first "What's wrong with a woman helping out a that they're in a relationship once in a while"?,but reading on what's mentioned on here, it's not right at all what those guys are doing ( Off-topic,maybe they thought that lying to you about their faith was the right thing to do,which is so wrong). Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Some guys don't get it... Posted : 17 Mar, 2011 10:52 AM You shouldn't have to take care of a guy, and you certainly aren't required to do anything unScriptural. There are a lot of not-marriage-material guys out there. I had an acquaintance I knew who said he was a Christian who was also actively trying to get the girls at his work to have sex with him. "Christian" is a term that is used incredibly loosely these days, so you can't trust someone at all just because they say they are a Christian. As for did you do something wrong? Hopefully you didn't agree to "going steady" only after a couple dates or something, as that is a sure way to get oneself into a setup where problems are waiting to happen. Outside of that, perhaps not enough time getting to know the person online or through text-messaging or etc. Better to take your time and go slow, there are a lot of people that need to be sifted through to be able to find the better ones. And I strongly dislike the concept of dating. It seems that it pushes things to become romantic after only hanging out with someone three or four times. I'd much prefer that people get to know each other as friends, and then if they later find out that they are starting to feel that they really couldn't live without each other (obviously not literally), then they could sit down and talk about if they want to pursue marriage. But anyway... Post Reply
View Profile History	Some guys don't get it... Posted : 19 Mar, 2011 02:38 PM :laugh: The computer had the hiccups! Post Reply
lolo505 View Profile History	Some guys don't get it... Posted : 24 Mar, 2011 09:15 PM You are doing he right thing. Never give in to a situation where you feel uncomfortable. I am happy to see someone with enough courage and faith to stand their ground. Soo many times these days, I see young ladies give in, just to please the stupid jerk who just wants to use her. Continue doing what you are doing. God Bless. Post Reply

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