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Admin	You knock on her door... Posted : 21 Jan, 2011 02:01 PM You knock on her door to pick her up for your first date, and she's wearing a mini skirt and low-cut top. What do you say? Post Reply
View Profile History	You knock on her door... Posted : 22 Jan, 2011 10:13 AM I stopped by to tell you my brother can't make it. Post Reply
View Profile History	You knock on her door... Posted : 23 Jan, 2011 01:15 AM Thanks for the responses, fellas! I'm a little surprised that no one said anything about have a straight-up conversation about modesty with the gal. "You're not dressed modestly and I don't feel comfortable being in your presence while you're dressed like that. I'll wait out here while you go change." Post Reply
View Profile History	You knock on her door... Posted : 23 Jan, 2011 09:30 AM I wouldn�t say anything, because if I complimented the way she is dressed then I would be lying. I would simply go with the first date as not to embarrass her, but never go out with her again. I wouldn�t ask her to change because that�s like asking someone to change their character, their views, their belief system. But knowing myself I doubt I would go so far as to go out with a girl I don�t know how she dresses. We live in an immodest world, and for a lady to dress modestly she must have the spirit of Christ and believe and obeys God�s Word in regard to modesty. She must have a strong character to go against the flow of society; she must have a strong character to see herself as God sees here rather than how the media tells her she must look like. If she didn�t let God change her, why would I think I can change her? Only the Lord can make us His true followers. Post Reply
stegoodie View Profile History	You knock on her door... Posted : 23 Jan, 2011 10:54 AM Maybe I have not spent much time around women who dress as you describe or just have never noticed it but I'm having a hard time picturing it. However, I will say that I am fine with a woman accentuating her God-given beauty but there is a line with that were it crosses out of being good taste. That being said and assuming the scenario you describe is outside of good taste, I would probably be put off and feel quite awkward. I would still go through with the date on the principle that one can't judge a book by its cover but the likelihood of further contact is very diminished. On a tangential comment, I just realized how very dry and scientific this post is. I think I need to spend some more time around people who are not scientists. lol :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	You knock on her door... Posted : 26 Jan, 2011 10:22 AM You guys are killing me~:laugh: Some real sassy answers for sure. It's good to hear that some Christian guys are morally alive. I had a friend who wore low cut tank tops and shirts, but not the short skirts. She got a lot of attention...from the guys outside the church and some that were in the church. Even a local, married cop. Hmmmm? :rolleyes: :angeldevil: Post Reply
View Profile History	You knock on her door... Posted : 27 Jan, 2011 04:58 PM I think I'd have established with her that I'm not into women who like sharing their goods visually with the whole town before I came to her door. I'm a red blooded man like any one else and I have my own limits which I need to take heed to .. Women dress that way for a variety of reasons so I'd need to find out what's going on in her which led her to do this. Had she surprised me with that, I'd probably go out any way to see if she's dressing that way because she wants to feel "pretty" and/or entice me .. and to see if whatever budding feelings have a chance of finding good ground to be sown into. It could be redemptive. She could grow as a result .. and maybe we might have a future. But if she requested a trip around town to some place to park afterwards, I'd take her home and drop her off. Oh, while we'd be sharing, I'd keep my eyes ON HER FACE. Post Reply

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