Author	Thread: Beauty Queen
Admin	Beauty Queen Posted : 8 Jan, 2011 10:21 PM Or Plain Jane? What's your preference? Why? Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 07:53 AM I don't doubt that was what you intended to say, but how was I supposed to get that from what you actually said? Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 08:12 AM Tulip: So instead of asking him to clarify, you implied that he was generalizing? I think the question could be better asked, would you put up with a dive just to have a beautiful wife, or would you rather have a plain woman with a beautiful heart? The obvious answer is that men would prefer the plain woman with the beautiful heart, but we see so many guys chasing after incredibly beautiful women all the time. Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 09:38 AM I think we all know what chevy was asking here and why. He , like lots of us just wants to post threads to get different opinions on things cause it's nice to see how different people answer differently. I don't think he meant to paint all gorgeous wome with the same brush or be rude to anyone. Cobbler I always love to see what you've posted. Some of you guys really can brighten up one's day. God Bless all of you! Deborah Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 09:42 AM Thanks bornagaintoserve. That would be a diva, not a dive. So much for spell checkers Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 10:14 AM My preference : a woman who is 'easy on the eyes'. There is a saying among horsemen : "Pretty is as pretty does". However, the bottom line is a guy doesn't want to think to himself, "She has such a great heart, I just wish she wasn't so ugly" Chevy, to answer your question from experince, even if everything else was equal except looks, I would prefer the 'plain jane' because beauty queens attract outside problems. Even Abraham found this to be true with Sarah when she was added to the kings harem , ......but he did leave the country with Sarah and great quantities of gold...hmmmm....I may have to rethink my answer...??? Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 10:38 AM Ya know, this reminds me of the "Marianne or Ginger ?" question for all of you who ever watched Gilligan's Isle... it's been going around for years now. It's all in fun and a tough choice at times because both have their attractive qualities that us guys like. Ginger is the sexy alluring movie star who uses her charm and looks to get what she wants and Marianne is the bubbly, fun attractive down home kinda gal... both lacking some of the other ones better qualities. For me, I'd choose the Marianne i guess because in her roll she's more simple, a "what you see is what you get girl." As for the stereotyping women, of pretty girls=shallow, plain Jane=good hearted, blondes=dumb or brunettes=smarter... That's not right to do... the same types of labels are given of men and sometimes they even seem true. How about the poor guys named John(a reference to the bathroom)? Bill- something you don't want to see in your mail box, Matt- poor guy gets feet wiped on and walked on, frank- a hotdog??? hehehe We've got it rough!:goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 01:38 PM Thank you Jar61. I know "in my experience" is a favorite thing to say as a way to soften an opinion and I honestly don't have a problem with it, as I have used it myself on many occasions... The only issue I have is when ppl don't seem to know that there are other options and really a whole world outside of "your experience". (This is for those that believe its okay to say beautiful=stuck on theirselves and plain=good heart beause its been 'your experience'):goofball: I honestly know what's being asked, but "in my experience" who is beautiful and who is plain? For anyone to base who they are looking for in a mate on the EXTREMELY stereotypical thought process that beautiful or plain equals anything of value is slow and immature. And for those of you that have strict weight preferences, make sure you have them sign something so that you can have an "out" of the marriage, because your woman staying slender is very important to the success of your union. Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 02:01 PM My x was average in looks but I found out she was a spoiled bratt that thought she was the best looking thing that ever walked after I married her. Looks have nothing to do with it friend.It is all in the person themselves. Post Reply
Christinacospgs View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 06:08 PM I have known a lot of truly beautiful women in my life that were not into themselves, and some that were not so pretty that were too into themselves. I also think that beauty is something that everyone views in different ways, despite what television and other influences try to persuade us to believe about it. Women are the same way - we are attracted to various types of men, not just the stereotypical as seen in the movies. I am attracted to the inside of a person just as much as the outside, if not more so. Post Reply
View Profile History	Beauty Queen Posted : 11 Jan, 2011 07:06 AM Thanks for all the responses to this post that was started thinking it would get some humorous replies---- sorry if it hit a nerve with some of you. I didn't mean to offend anyone. chevy Post Reply

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