Author	Thread: This question is for those of you who dislike drama.
Admin	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 03:21 PM I understand not liking drama. Really. I do. I don't particularly enjoy my own drama when it happens. But seriously, who doesn't have some drama from time-to-time?! When I see a profile in which the guy states that he does not want to be involved with a girl who has drama, my first thought is that he's totally in La-la-land. Life IS dramatic. So, I guess this is my question: What will you do when drama happens while you're married (and it will!)? Will you just bury your head in the sand and pretend it's not happening? Will you divorce your wife? Will you get mad at her because you expected that nothing dramatic would ever happen? Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 06:37 AM Chuck, None of us are beyond saying the wrong thing or not quite using the right word when explaining what we mean. I really doubt that you would �put down� a horse because it is a �Kicker�. A horse kicks for a reason. Unless there is some �organic� (brain) malfunction, many of these horses can be �cured� with Patience�Love�Affinity�and More LOVe and AFFECTION. Just as it takes time and a lot of work finding out what is the cause of the horse�s fear (in many cases it�s some kind of abuse when they were young)�so too is it possible to help someone who has �drama� issues. People that act this way, do so for a reason. In a lot of cases there is a problem with the brain (Frontal Lobe or one of the other�parts�) and can be alleviated with medication. Personally, I would rather learn that a person is a Drama Queen before I am in a relationship with them. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 06:38 AM False statement: The bigger the women�s breast are, the dumber they are. True statement: The bigger the women�s breast are, the dumber the men get. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 06:59 AM My neighbor upstairs just reminded me of another possible meaning to �drama�. It seems like every time there is a disagreement she can�t just discuss things rationally, but she has to start crying and bringing up all the past hurt that �he� has caused her. Just one little thing starts her off about how everything is terrible in their relationship. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 08:31 AM Archimedes, Yes, you are correct....to a point. Here is a true saying : There are to many good horses to be wasting your time on a bad one. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 11:05 AM I guess that depends on your definition of drama. To me drama = Irrational and constantly over reacting. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 11:55 AM Pixy, I have read where women have wrote the same thing. They do not want drama. why- maybe because the last person was a bad apple. Until you have been married you will not understand many things. It is beyond you right now. Marriage will help you answer this question. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 01:22 PM Dgrimater: So you are saying that it�s a lot like the Obama health bill, we won�t know what�s in it till we pass it. Post Reply
View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 31 Dec, 2010 06:44 PM yes, when I got married I got a real education.Everything changes over night. certain things have to be experienced. Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 02:17 PM I think we have a male-female translation problem here, so let me decode the manspeak for you. ----Bzztt.---- When a guy says "drama" he means "turning something little into something big out of a desire for attention". There is no "good" or "little" aspect to drama. Drama is a way of life. It's either there or not. If she has a bad day, that's not drama. If something truly tragic happens and she's out of sorts for a while, that's not drama. Drama is only and always selfish, self-centered, childish behavior. -----Bbbzzzt.---- You can now resume your normal female mode of thinking. This has been a transmission by the Male-Female Emergency Communication broadcast. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	This question is for those of you who dislike drama. Posted : 1 Jan, 2011 02:42 PM SilverFire got it right. Bandon's answer is good too. I'm not a girl who has a "lot of drama in her life"...sure, dramatic things (in my experience, they are also usually traumatic) can happen, but it's not a way of life. If something doesn't go my way, I don't overreact. If I burn the toast, it's not the end of the world. If I have to get the decorated paper towels instead of the white ones that I prefer, I don't go pitch a fit to the store manager. If my plans don't actually happen like I'd scheduled, I go with the flow and adjust my schedule to what is the reality of the situation. I just deal with those things and move on. Get over it. No big deal. If a loved one dies, I'll probably be emotional for awhile. If I lose my job, I'll likely feel depressed for awhile. If my husband cheats on me, he can expect quite the dramatic blow-up from me. Those are big things that cause major life changes. They are dramatic and traumatic. But I'll still deal with them in a rational way...it might just take a little longer to calm down, and my husband would have to deal with my "drama" for possibly a few days. Yeah, I think I'm with the guys who dislike drama...I dislike drama too! Post Reply

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