Author	Thread: A mans perspective of attractive
cjbloom View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 12:54 PM What do men find attractive in women when they first me them? Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 06:48 PM Physically, I like petite women. What I love is a smile or a sparkle in their eye that lights up a room. Of course I don't know how to be more specific, it's just something I know when I see it. As for nonphysical attributes, I like a softness or humbleness about her. That girl next door attribute. Maybe I have to describe it but saying what she isn't. What I find as a turn off is the "ambitious frantic corporate type who is always attached to her phone". I also find a lot of women try to be one of the guys anymore, so I find it attractive when a woman isn't that, when she is a woman. Post Reply
Samheis View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 08:02 PM As you can see, there's a wide variety of things guys find attractive. We're not all the same, hence this world is so wonderfully populated with unique personalities. Brandon was absolutely correct: a woman should worry less on being what every guy wants and worry more about being who she is. Odds are, no matter how beautiful or attractive or alluring a woman is, there will be a guy somewhere that will find her unappealing. And, odds are, no matter how un-attractive a lady finds herself, there's a guy somewhere that thinks she's worth more than the world. After all, it's not about attracting every guy out there, just that ONE that you'll spend the rest of your life with! For every guy that wants a model, television styled girlfriend, there's ten more that would just like someone to watch the Office with them! :laugh: Shawn67 doesn't like the frantic, high-stress, always going corporateer, but guess what? Somewhere out there, there is a guy that LOVES that in a woman. We're all different, and that's why women hate us.... err... I mean we're awesome :laugh: ---------- Oh, and one little piece of advice to all women: NEVER fake yourself. EVER. If you think a guy wouldn't like some core aspect of you, then ask yourself why you want that guy in the first place. Trying to be someone you're not will only lead to trouble down the line Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 09:25 PM To be perfectly honest I think it has to be something of the physical sense that the individual male finds attractive, like a nice smile, beautiful eyes, gorgeous hear,etc,etc,etc...but then I think too it can quickly turn to the personality and what type of personality a man finds attractive...is she intelligent, does she seem to be true to herself or does she seems fake, does she wear her heart on her sleeve or leavign something hidden...so I guess to answer the question I think upon forst meeting someone what attracts a guy is first the physical "likes" and then the personal "likes", but in a deeper relationship I think that through time and understanding of the person...the true attractiveness comes first through the personality "likes" and then the physical "likes" become greater! Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 04:32 AM Samheis told the truth 'bout us guys being awesome.:applause: I agree with what stormcountry said too. As far as physical --- a girl with a pony tail has got my attention! :dancingp: chevy Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 10:26 AM I don't really seem to have a "physical" type of attraction, it's pretty spread out. It's more based on how things come together, than what physical type a woman is. Natural/healthy-looking is the only physical trend I can pin down that I'm attracted to. The main thing that attracts me is expressions. Physical manifestations of emotional responses, and the way she interacts with others. The most unattractive thing to me in a woman(or anyone for that matter) is pride. When a woman treats herself like she is more important than everyone else, and is not considerate of others by the way she acts/talks...that turns me off more than anything. Like if a girl and I went out to eat, and my date treated a waiter like waiters aren't allowed to make mistakes like the rest of us humans...I probably wouldn't look for a second date. That would tell me a lot about how she looks at herself/others. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 10:36 AM I watched a documentry on ancient chinese bridge building. The man in charge of the engineering design and construction of the bridge was a 90 year old chinese man. When asked about that design he replied "It is a reverse curve, the most beautiful shape known to man, as it is the same reverse curve on a woman's side from her waist to her hip" Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 10:42 AM Mmmm. That's like that line in "Autumn in New York," where the Richard Gere fellow wants whats-her-name to design a hat that follows the line of a woman's hip. Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 03:53 PM Long hair. Short hair is not attractive at all. Also humbleness. There's nothing worse then when a women thinks she's the greatest thing going and acts insulted by you just talking to her. Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 08:13 PM @2sparrow: Also known as the Golden Ratio, which for some reason applies to all things in a way that is esthetically and still sound for engineering. For a second I was all excited because I thought Archimedes was the one that came up with that, but no. Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 27 Dec, 2010 11:41 PM Thanks Brandon, I'll look that up. Post Reply

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