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To Wink or Not To Wink
Posted : 1 Dec, 2010 07:07 PM

That is the question.



Like all girls, I want to be pursued. From the time I was little I've wanted to be doing my thing, which is now doing the Lord's thing, and have some guy fall over at the site of me. (Not that I think I'm that beautiful, that's just the way the dream goes.) I've always wanted him to walk up to me, bold as can be, and say something like "you are who I am going to marry." Or even, "hey, wanna get some coffee?" In any case, I want to be pursued. I don't want to be the pursuer. Because of this, I go back and forth on whether or not I should send a guy a wink on here.



I know many guys have been hurt by showing interest in a girl who doesn't feel the same way. (My roommate is one of those girls who can get any guy she wants, but doesn't want anyone.) So I think, "well, give him a little wink." But then I also think about how in real life I wouldn't wink at a guy who hasn't shown any interest. I would wink at him to let him know I'm returning his interest, but I wouldn't be the first winker...ya know?



So when I look at your profile and like what I see, should I wink or does that seem too forward?

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To Wink or Not To Wink
Posted : 2 Dec, 2010 03:17 PM

I don't remember, I may have. I'm rather surprised that you would remember that.

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Posted : 2 Dec, 2010 03:46 PM

Well, if you check your profile, it shows the last five post. Two of them about winks.



Sometimes I can't remember what I said five minutes ago.

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Posted : 2 Dec, 2010 05:27 PM

Good call, Cobbler. Thanks for pointing that out.

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Posted : 4 Dec, 2010 03:06 PM

To me winks are like a bit of a tease to me,if a girl give me one whether here (CDFF)or in person.On here though,if a girl give me a "wink" here,i mostly give back another one,but i think that some girls reasons here on CDFF may vary.Some may be shy,others may not have something in their mind at the time to message a guy.The problem though,is when i give back a wink,they do not ever,ever message me!:laugh:

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Posted : 21 Dec, 2010 07:11 PM

Sure, Go ahead send one.

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