Author	Thread: why do men run
athiswill View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 25 Aug, 2008 07:48 PM i was wondering why men say they are ready for a deep connection, and someone sweet and honest. when they get it they run scared from the deep connection and love Post Reply
View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 30 Sep, 2008 04:01 AM Sorry for this post being so long, but as a Godly man, I just have so much to say, especially being a man, since this topic is obviously about men. This is a big topic in itself, and I think I have something to say about it: :) Okay, I understand where you and other women are coming from, I really do, but not all men are neccessarily like that, at least I'm not. I'm not ashamed to say that I am a sensitive guy, caring and gentle, and want an emotional connection with a women some day, and belive I can make her feel secure inside. Of course, though, only Jesus Christ can give a women the ultimate love she needs, but I believe that God will use me to be a very special person in my future wives life and spirit, to take care of her. Some men, though, SOME, not generalizing, but some have grown up without love and affection, without knowing how to love etc... Some men grew up hard inside, and some men feel ashamed to let loose and allow love and sensitivity to pour out of their soul, maybe because they feel that it is only how women should be and act. A lot of men grew up without their Fathers, which is something women should realize, which can have a massive affect down the road emotionally. Now, I'm not trying to justify the way us men act sometimes, but I'm just trying to give you a simple, friendly understand of how things are, some insight into us men. I'd say I grew up quite whole, so I don't know everything about the pain of a man, but obviously being a man myself, I know a fair amount. Overall, every man is just looking for that 1 women whom he can connect with, who will unerstand him, who he can share his soul with and his deepest thoughts. BUT WOMEN! Don't give up, don't be sad, there are plenty of whole men out there who are willing to give a women everything she needs. You just have to pray, wait on the Lord, and have a little patience, and trust me, he will come. I guess it's all about patience. Jesus Christ knows exactly what you want and need. Whether your getting to know a man right now, whether you are in a relationship, don't be afraid to ask us men exactly what is on our mind, how we feel. Try to make us open up. A lot can happen that way. Lastly, please don't see us men as just craving for sex, because that is not true. Yes, that is what we want, and we shouldn't be afraid to hide that, but that isn't all. God created us with a healthy diet, Id say, for sex, (obviously within marriage contents I'm speaking). One day we want to share our bodies with that one women we love. I wish women would understand that. Please don't think that we are just sex beasts. I know that sounds a bit strong, but, you know...Us men really love the gift of a women, everything about her. You women are unique and special, and we see the value which God has imparted into you. There is a balance, though, no, maybe sex isn't all of us men should be thinking about, but it is in our nature. There are Godly men out there who have saved themselves for their future wives (like myself). Just believe that there are Godly men out there, who are whole, and ready to embrace the love of a women, to be connected, and not RUN! :) God bless all of you women Sicerely from your brother in Chrsit Post Reply
Jerad012 View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 3 Jan, 2009 11:47 PM I would think the most logical thing would be because unlike most women who are sure they have found the right "one", many men will not know, not even on their wedding day. I think it is more of a question of "is this women the best for me?" and the fear of "settling" too early, for wrong motives, or even a fear of someone "better" coming along that is a better match. Being a logical man, especially a man that determines their worth by accomplishment and success, a poor choice or a feeling that there could be something better is very hard. Afterall, marriage till "death do us part" is a long time to live with a choice for a man who thinks logical. Just my two cents. Post Reply
View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 4 Jan, 2009 05:40 AM There is your answer ladies. Let me make it even simpler. Logical=secular. If your man is thinking this way, he is still in the world. It isn't that men do this, it is the men you are choosing. Blessings, Leon Post Reply
View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 16 Apr, 2009 08:42 PM thanx gentle/sweet. I appreciate your response. We feel valued and desired when a guy wants us for us, and i know we can be quick to label men as all they think about is sex. I know is not true, perhaps stronger than it is for us gals. But it is beautiful and complementary how God created us. I can't wait for marriage, where i can show my husband how much i love him in every way. I don't quite understand how strong this drive is for guys, but i respect and appreciate that and long to fulfill that for him in a God honoring way. Post Reply
randy216 View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 21 Jun, 2009 08:10 PM I find that most women find it odd for a guy they work with who doesn't "talk" or interact alot to walk up and flirt. I have find myself cracking jokes and trying to get to know people as a way to fight off nervous "twitches" I shake really bad when I get nervous. So why don't you just start letting people, and women, know who you are. Break the ice. You work at this place and no one wants to be the "creepy" guy at work. Post Reply
adventure_seeker View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 26 Jun, 2009 08:09 PM personally in my opinion men run because they always think about the wrong thing and in this case im talking about sex, a lot of the times when they say there ready it means im ready to have sex, im not saying all guys because there are several guys who actually want a relationship for what it really is. Post Reply
View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 04:45 PM lol I was wondering why women do the same thing? Once they find a deep connection and love they run away scared too. This phenomenon is not exclusive to men. Post Reply
View Profile History	why do men run Posted : 26 Aug, 2009 12:16 AM Bill 3 is right, women run as well. i know because i've done it oh so much unfortunately. for me personally, i had the trend of sabortaging a good thing maybe because of of some underlying insecurities. when a guy was "too into me" i always felt that feared that that was a fleeting feeling which would soon end just as i'm head over heels for him so to prevent heartbreak, i "ran". i have many regrets as i've let many a good man slip away that way. i'd say i'm ready for a serious relationship but when it presented itself i ran scared. i didn't want to suffer heartache so i ended things before they could blossom. for these men you've experienced running, itg may be the same "issue"... -LR Post Reply

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