Author	Thread: Sense of responsibility.
Admin	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 05:43 AM Guys, do you feel any responsibility for the girls you meet with? I mean, that one who you spend a lot of time with and when you tell her about your feelings ect. When you see that she begins fall in love with you.. I ask about that because I saw it many times, when a guy does almost everything to please a girl but then, when the goal was reached, he left her and switched to another girl. So what is the problem? Do you afraid of serious relationship or what? Do you feel responsibility? Post Reply
View Profile History	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 06:18 PM Oh this is just precious. talking to a skitzo ahahahaaa ha ok ok I think I could take it right if a guy I was trying to flirt with said that they weren't ready for a relationship. If they said they wouldn't date me because they're not ready for marriage? That would make me think: whoa I'm not thinking I'm gonna marry you yet either - I haven't even dated you! Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 08:52 PM The problem is that women are used to dealing with other women, who hide and soften and obscure their words; when a man says how he feels, it is simply too strong for women to handle and so they run away, screaming. This happens to me all the time -- I will say how I feel and women act as though I just cut off their left arm. (Even though I never attacked them, personally, and would never.) A fair amount of this behavior is rooted in immaturity and fear, as well. The number of honest, no-game women out there is small, but I think you're better off holding out for one of them. Both you and she will be a lot happier. As for the original question, it's a common assumption that the man feels no man when a relationship doesn't pan out. Men and women handle pain differently, and a man will often try to alleviate his pain by pursuing another woman, rather than sit in ashes and tears for several days (although I rather like doing the latter, but I'm atypical). Post Reply
View Profile History	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 05:08 AM Alycorn, you are kinda proving my point. I don�t date just to have something to do, I date because I am looking for marriage. But, that doesn�t mean that because I asked you out I want to marry you. A guy can very easily date someone for months, realize that she IS THE ONE, and still never want to get married. All I am stating upfront is IF I EVER get to the point that I KNOW that she is THE ONE then I will not hesitate to get married. I am NOT stating up front that my intentions is to GET you to marry me no matter how we feel about each other. The situations the original poster stated could have simply been avoided by asking up front what their intentions are. Instead, women prefer the don�t ask don�t tell policy, rush into a relationship, find out months later that the guy won�t commit, and then blame all men for being a bunch of liars. Women will dismiss honest guys like us and then stand around and whine about how there aren�t any honest men out there. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 04:51 PM i think i would more than likely talk to someone who says they are interested in marriage rather than long term relationship. Long term relationship to me means that we would date for a long period and then if i ever said anything about marriage, he would say, well in the beginning you knew i wanted a long term relationship only. maybe it's my age, i dont know ;) Post Reply
View Profile History	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 05:06 PM Thank you River. At least someone sees my point. Post Reply
Koinonia87 View Profile History	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 1 Nov, 2010 04:49 AM I'm going to have to agree here. Expectations in a relationship are huge. Leaving them unspoken, or worse, playing games with them is an invitation to hurt. I'm not keen on short-term relationships, either. That's what friends are for. (meaning something to do on Friday night, not that they shouldn't last) I've waited to date and any relationship of mine will be with the intent of getting to know if she is "the one." In that context I would hope there is enough of a foundation there and enough maturity so that expectations are mutually known going in. If she's on the same page then I can't see why it should scare her off. Post Reply
mikeesclone View Profile History	Sense of responsibility. Posted : 30 Dec, 2010 02:34 PM Of course the guy has responsibility but sadly the world community and there twisted ideals about what marriage is that makes them more responsible. Matthew 19;3-7 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, �Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?� 4 �Haven�t you read,� he replied, �that at the beginning the Creator �made them male and female,�[a] 5 and said, �For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh�[b]? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.� 7 �Why then,� they asked, �did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away? Notice here the reference to genesis and it didn't mention anything about a church ceremony or a paper signed by a judge the sad truth is you will not find in the bible a concept of "premarital sex" cause the sex is the marriage and for those of you that will say but it does say don't fornicate there is 3 definitions of that according to the Jewish definition at the time 1 idolatry 2. adultery 3 to prostitute monger. and even prostitute mongering was considered marrying the prostitute I believe if people knew that sex was in Gods law the marriage and not the Cinderella story idea of marriage people would take sex a lot more serious Post Reply

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