Author	Thread: pornography
Admin	pornography Posted : 19 Oct, 2010 10:24 PM What are your thoughts on why men (and women) look at pornography? Post Reply
View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 11:12 AM @Rainbowian, I know it doesn't feel good to contribute to a conversation & have no one acknowledge that, especially when everyone else is getting their posts responded to and they're actively in discussion. You have to put your comment up and forget about validation. I have a couple of ppl here who don't ever respond to me even if I speak directly to them. I don't care. Neither do I care about being in the 'in' crowd here. You shouldn't either. My thoughts? I've viewed out of curiosity. In college, I heard ppl talkin bout positions and the stuff they did and I went to someone's room where it was being watched & was fascinated/appalled at the same time. During my marriage, I went thru a period of time when I was literally 'caught up' with the compulsion to watch because of a void & a spirit of lust that I had not dealt with before I got married. I opened the 'spiritual door' & found myself demonically oppressed (meaning, I wanted to stop, but couldn't or didn't feel strong enough, never want to feel that dirty again.) When you are 'supposed' to be saved and holy & find yourself caught in the grip of sin, where do you go for help? I love my church! I finally swallowed the shame long enough to go to a prophet and known minister in spiritual warfare & found out that I didn't have to suffer as long as I did. That lust & its perversions are common to man and guilt & shame are tricks Satan uses to keep us bound. Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty I'm free at last...:dancingp::laugh: Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 11:14 AM Apologies if my previous post came off wrong. It just seemed disrespectful for her to make sure to thank the other guy while completely ignoring my effort. Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 11:16 AM @rainbowian. I thought your answer regarding why guys look was an interesting point that I had not thought of. But I don't think what you said about girls really answers the why, lol Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 11:19 AM @rainbowian. I was ready to respond to your first post before I even read your second, let alone third ones, so I guess that says something? LOL. And I think BG and I posted at the same time because I hadn't see hers. @babygirl. I agree with your response to rainbowian too. Post Reply
View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 11:24 AM Amen, Cowgirl! That's why you my homie!:rocknroll: Post Reply
View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 12:23 PM To answer this question one needs only to have lived around animals. Some will not be able to relate to what I am about to share only because they have not had the experience of growing up and living around animals. Ever been around a mare in season with a stallion close by ? Ever seen a female dog or cat in heat and the males coming around? We have something in common with animals ; it is called the FLESH. The enemy of our souls knows this and exploits our weakness in the flesh hoping to entangle us and be ruled by our flesh. This also brings spiritual aspects of shame and guilt for turning our back on God and yielding to the flesh making us do much like Adam and Eve; hide from God. Just as the urge is stronger in some animals than others so the urge is stronger in some people than others; it just depends on how they are wired. The bottom line is flesh and blood cannot inherit the Kingdom of Heaven which makes it a effective tool to be used by the enemy. Therefore the flesh must be overcome. And the only way to overcome the flesh is in the Grace and Power of Jesus. Post Reply
View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 12:27 PM :glow:....I dont care to know why they look or there reasons for it...What I do care about is that a subject matter of Sinful Nature is being so Easily discussed in a Open Forum...I've come across this stuff on Secular sites an thats why I dont partake of those sites...No disrepect to the Poster...but I find this kind of stuff to be ingauging in the Devils Whims of Seduction & Mis-Direction away from the LORD Jesus*...Not sorry to say...My name is Jude and YES!!! I am a PRUDE and dang Proud to say so... Anywho...thanxs for lettin me vent my Moral conviction and lovein me anyway...Yall hava a God Filled an Blessed day...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 01:09 PM I understand your thought process Jude. And I do love you no matter what!!:peace: I think making certain subjects taboo, is a tool the enemy uses to keep things swept under the carpet. That is the exact reason why I and many others don't seek help for things of this nature. This is a real life issue that ppl are dealing with everyday. If we can discuss it, give someone some insight and possibly give someone the courage to come forward and get some help....nough said. There is nothing sexual about this conversation. And the more informed and open we are, bringing the devil's tricks and schemes to light, the more power we have to overcome our flesh. @2spar, never been around animals like that, but I understood what you said. Good word. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 02:01 PM We discuss alcoholism, drugs, divorce, etc. I don't see this as any more sinful. I dealt with this problem on my own, and I'm sure it took me many years longer than it would have if I would have talked about it to someone, so I can see how discussing it would help someone else. When someone thinks they have a problem so disgusting that they can't even talk about it...they're trapped. I agree that we don't need to get into "details" though, lets just keep it simple. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	pornography Posted : 20 Oct, 2010 02:32 PM mark the other issues are not always offensive to a personal violation to a group of people. My Aunts live in boy friend was bust over the internet for this child thing.Some how he went to a motel room to meet a 14 year old girl and it was a cop. never, never do anything like this.You will get caught. Dennis Post Reply

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