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Admin	What are some reasons that a guy... Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 03:59 PM What are some reasons that a guy would be "undecided/open" about having children? Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	What are some reasons that a guy... Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 08:43 PM Cowgirl, I hope he never reproduces either! I had started to get a "bad vibe" about him anyway, and that was the last straw. I ended communication with him shortly after our discussion about kids. He sent me a particularly nasty email bashing all girls because none of them understand why he doesn't want kids, and none of them are serious about marriage, and none of them ever tell the truth, etc, etc, etc. I didn't respond to that email at all, and a couple weeks later he sent an apology...I still wasn't interested. I've also questioned my own motives for wanting children. I have a few minor health problems, all genetic, and I've wondered if it would be less selfish of me to NOT have children of my own and just adopt. I asked my doctor about it, though, and she said that even though my problems are genetic, there is a good chance that I won't pass them along to my children, particularly if the father doesn't have the same health issues; she said that if I want kids, go for it. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What are some reasons that a guy... Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 08:59 PM o that ones easy, cause they are undecided or open :dancingp: (10 points for me lol) Ive got nothing else lol. We are pretty simple...ooo or it could be both :) they need to put one that says sure why not or it dosnet matter to me or the more the marrier or something. Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	What are some reasons that a guy... Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 09:45 PM Rabbit, you are officially my hero of the minute after that :ROFL: Very clever. Post Reply
View Profile History	What are some reasons that a guy... Posted : 21 Oct, 2010 10:01 PM in these times maybe or open might mean that they think that she might actually come with children from a past relationship, and yeah that might be hard for some people to accept... another possibility is that open means that they just don't know for sure and want to think it out... i am one of the second group... kids are a big responsibility and i was brought up by just mom so i understand. i wouldn't want to rush into having kids and marriage itself is a big commitment... Post Reply

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