Author	Thread: first kiss
Admin	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 12:07 PM When is it appropriate for a couple to introduce kissing into the relationship? Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 09:28 AM BC, it makes sense =). Yep I have saved myself as well, and I am going to have my first kiss on my wedding day later yay! :applause: Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 09:40 AM be careful not to awaken love before its time. you know your body...and it doesnt take much to stimulate a man. sorry guys, just telling the truth. If your going after purity until marriage..NO kissing except for maybe on the cheek. If there is an engagement I think kissing would be ok. Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 11:29 AM Yup, it makes sense, BC, and I think it's great that you haven't kissed anyone yet =) The more I think the issue over and read everyone's replies, I'm really leaning towards no kissing until an engagement... as hard as that would be for me since my love language is physical touch... Except kisses on the cheek or forehead... that could happen earlier and would be very sweet! Nobody other than my parents have kissed me in those spots. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 12:46 PM I agree with with River we (men) can become easily stimulated, depending on the situation. I think River is right we know ourselves, but we also must guard the other even if they think they can handle it. Kissing depending on the one thats doing it can be harmless to sensual no matter where you place it. Even if one wont have you weak in the knees they have a compounding, lasting effect long after your loved one's lips have left your skin. Heck even hugging can be to much, it seems to depend on how well the relationship is going. Post Reply
ashyah View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 02:30 PM I would only let a man kiss me if I had feelings for him. Before that no. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 02:34 PM ok rabbit...what about holding hands? If hugging is dangerous, then so would be holding hands...if your sexually attracted to someone ANYTHING will trigger stimulation. (yes we are all christians but we still can be sexually attracted to someone) so if your sexually attracted to someone, RUN THE OTHER WAY! yay or nay?????????????? Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 02:58 PM Awwww....yall are all so sweet and innocent! I was married and have 3 kids and Imma need yall to know that being easily stimulated is not a 'man' thing only. I'll stay in the minority and still say that for me it's an individual thing. If I'm dating someone and they are attractive, sexy, etc..., whether I've kissed them or not, I've still got to keep my flesh in check. In my earlier dating adventures, I dated a guy who wasn't strong in the faith (he was really a decent, nice guy though) for a year and kissed him and didn't sleep with him. I'm resolute about that. I counted up the cost and decided that a few hours of pleasure (yeah I said hours) was not worth the aftermath. I think if keeping yo lips off each other is what it takes to stay lined up with the Word and not sin against God, then, I say do whatever is necessary for you. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 03:18 PM lol...bg your crazy Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 05:27 PM As a serial kisser, I have to disagree with Sparrows and Angel. Through my teenage years I went from boyfriend to boyfriend like my peers did, and often kissing was involved. My first kiss was at age 17, which never failed to surprise my peers that it took me so long. Now here I am, almost feeling like a hussy. :goofball: Kissing does not lose its touch, or at least it hasn�t yet for me. My first kiss was no fun at all. I have already kissed my long-term Christian boyfriend (who I have chosen with much more discretion than those of my teen years), and that kiss was way more magical (excuse the corny mushiness) than any beforehand, and no, it was not lustful. I kissed him on the forehead on the end of our first date and I do not think it was too soon, and even if we don�t work out I�m not going to regret it. What makes a kiss special is who you do it with and what is in your heart when you do it. If somebody wants to wait until much later in the relationship, I cheer them on if that is their resolve. That person might not enjoy their first kiss if it is sooner than they�d like, and I don�t want anything to make their first kiss any less satisfying than it could be. It comes down to what each person wants and what is done out of love and under God�s direction. And in some respect, yes I do wish I had waited, not because I was too young, but because I kissed some guys who did not deserve it. It did not make them any harder to break up with, and I didn�t feel emotionally compromised because of it� just a little foolish for feeding into their sense of entitlement. Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 05:42 PM Oh, I've kissed before too. And I regret it =( That's why I'm rethinking my boundaries now. Post Reply

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