Author	Thread: Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess?
Christinia2 View Profile History	Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess? Posted : 23 Sep, 2010 02:59 AM Guys why do you spend the time look at a women's pic. and reading her profile to not then send a note?? If you are just seeing whom sent you a wink or viewed you, don't you think it is polite to say hello? I don't get why many guys can't strike up a conversation with a lady as a Christian friend and then see if it would go anywhere from there? Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems like most men want it all or nothing.....only want to talk if it will lead to date, etc...? Post Reply
roeroe View Profile History	Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess? Posted : 23 Sep, 2010 04:08 PM You can turn the setting on and off....and use it for people you want to know your interested... Post Reply
View Profile History	Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess? Posted : 23 Sep, 2010 04:36 PM Well, you can work it that way. The setting takes affect right away, so you could leave off as the normal setting. Then, you could turn it on and view the guys profile, then turn it back off. It's a bit of extra work, but you could do it that way. You could also let him know you are interested by seding him a quick message and ask him a simple question or two about himself. :winksmile: Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess? Posted : 23 Sep, 2010 05:45 PM Christina, I understand what you are saying emotionally. I think you should send a message to the guy or guys who are frequently visiting your profile. You probably will not get a response, as we men rarely get responses, but at least it will settle your feelings a bit, eh? Post Reply
View Profile History	Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess? Posted : 23 Sep, 2010 07:08 PM I agree with the "looking for something specific" ... that's what my profile clearly informs the gals ... and in my case, that may be something in her profile or may not, so ... I try to be more open with my specific preferences and dreams and desires and needs for "an artistic barefoot gal" type of gal for a wife and am enjoying writing to many gals whom I find share some of the same interests and feelings/personality that I do ... however, only a few of those who have viewed me and read my e-mails have e-mailed me back so far ... but I've only been looking for God's BAREFOOT BEST for me and e-mailing gals here a week or so ... and you know from my other posts how my heart desires to wait on the Lord and God's timing with everything, as we know we all should be willing to do ... and sometimes I'm also just e-mailing to be a friend who might or might not become more, only God knows that possibility for sure. Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess? Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 10:02 AM When I view a profile I look to see how much care was put into communicating with me. If the pictures are small or out of focus I quit right there. If the profile starts reading like a novel or has way too much personal information that isn't necessary I move on. If the girl lives in a foreign country I keep moving too. If a guy is perusing through "My Matches" there is nothing to go on but a picture so once he is at the profile he may just move on. Maybe she smokes, or drinks, or has kids, or has one picture of herself, a couple of her toy poodle and a sunset. Who knows? I think women do the same thing don't they? There are a lot of factors that matter to guys and they are all different. I get lots of looks too and very few emails and that's ok with me. It's nothing personal. If I like someone that looked at me I will send a message to them and try to find out why they didn't stop to say hi and I let them know I am interested in them. Thunder Post Reply
View Profile History	Guys why is it you often look but do not send a mess? Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 08:08 PM Well... what can I say? I'm a sinner and pride is one sin I'm guilty of. I don't like wasting my time writing a genuine message only to get rejected or receive no response at all. Also, a lot of times, I feel as though it's probably been said before and a million times over. By the time whoever she is checks my message, she'll just assume I'm like every other guy. Nope. Not happening =P Post Reply

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