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Christinia2

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Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date?
Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 04:52 PM

Why is it so hard to find a true, honest and Christian man that wants to date and develop an good relationship with a good women?? You men use this site cos it is free......is that it?? I am so tired of meeting men on here that say they are Christians and looking for a honest relationship with a lady and that they aren't like those other guys, whom play games, lie and/or have other motives in mind, but when it comes right down to it they do end up wanting just about the same things!!

Am I the only lady on this site that find this to be a problem??

If a person is just using this site cos it is free and to get his own personal needs, wants and desires meet.........than be up-front and honest about it..........that way we can decide for ourselves if we want to further our time with you or not. Not spend so much time chatting and even talking over the phone thinking I might be developing a true, honest, Christian based friendship, poss. more with a man that isn't really a man true to his word and believes/values.



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HeartSeeker07

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Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date?
Posted : 7 Jul, 2013 06:25 AM

PERSONALLY FOR "Christinia2"



You seem UPSET from your COMMENT on the SITE... Yah, I AGREE with you... somehow IT'S TRUE and even me, I can't deny it... I am SINGLE since BIRTH... and GOD KNOWS, how many courting I DID for some women.. But still I'M NOT LUCKY to HAVE even one... THANKS GOD, until now I've got that NERVE to LIVE with HIM without any WOMAN in my LIFE.. But till now I'm still DOING my BEST to LOOK for ONE.. Cause my most recent attempt was just a year ago... But the GIRL choose NOT ME, but another guy...



So, if you are SUFFERING the SAME, what will you feel?... =) =) =)... but those doesn't keep me from smiling.. FOR I KNOW, LIFE IS NOT ONLY ABOUT GETTING MARRIED... LIFE is TO LIVE, TO SERVE, TO LAUGH, TO CRY, TO FALL, TO RISE and FINALLY when our TIMES COMES IS TO DIE and TO FACE OUR GOD... it is there WHERE OUR LIFE WILL BEGIN, either to BE WITH HIM or to be WITHOUT HIM... BLESSED BE GOD FOREVER, AMEN...



Sorry for that quite serious HOMILY... =) =) =)



Hope to hear from you.. GOD BLESS. =) =) =)

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Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date?
Posted : 29 Jul, 2013 03:38 AM

It is simple. there are three types of christians. Babes, Carnal and Spiritual.



1 Corinthians 3:1

And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as unto spiritual, but as unto carnal, even as unto babes in Christ.



Babes are new christians and spiritual are christians who have maturity. Carnal on the other hand is a christian who has never grown. He lets the flesh dictate hs ways.



I believe that these men you are tefering to are simply carnal men fulfiling the lusts of the flesh. We have battles with this every day but some christians simply dont resist.

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Posted : 22 Feb, 2014 04:17 PM

@Honeydip. I read your profile and decided to look at this posting. I will agree partially with what you said but I think that it may be a generalization. There are real Christian men out there because I am one of them.



I am not without my mistakes and my human failings but my heart belongs to the Lord and He is worthy to be praised and followed.



There are a lot of men who keep forgetting that we live in the world and not of the world. The world is an evil place and we need our growth in the Lord to be the most important thing in our lives. I have led Men's Bible Studies and have found that men are not at all dependable or serious about learning more about the Lord because they still schedule their studies around their lives instead of scheduling their lives around their studies.



For men everywhere, I apologize for the vast amount of men who are weak Christians who let their ego speak for their character more often than letting their faith reveal their character.



Amen??

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Why is it so hard to find true Christian men out there to date?
Posted : 16 Feb, 2015 05:59 PM

I ask myself the same thing about Christain women. It seems like if youre not a Ken with a six pack an a six figure salary youre doomed.

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