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Jeremiah21

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Ask me anything you ever wanted to know about dating a Christian woman but are afraid to ask
Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 05:14 AM

I am writing a book and need some questions to answer for a chapter devoted specifically for dating Christian women and men. Please send me any question doesn't matter and I will try to answer it.

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Ask me anything you ever wanted to know about dating a Christian woman but are afraid to ask
Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 08:52 AM

@Stormie: gud advice. Evaluate ourselves before pointing our fingers to other people! :dancingp:

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Ask me anything you ever wanted to know about dating a Christian woman but are afraid to ask
Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 09:33 AM

The fashion industry is pretty scary. 90% of the "models" I see are not just unattractive...they are EXTREMELY unattractive. And yet men get blamed for pushing women to be thin/covered in makeup? Not this man. Natural and healthy, that is what I find attractive.





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Ask me anything you ever wanted to know about dating a Christian woman but are afraid to ask
Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 08:16 PM

Women read/hear "into" things because their communications skills are horrible and they are controlled by fear. Instead of asking a guy, "Is that what you meant", they'll go talk to their girlfriends for 20 hours straight. It's also because women have their own internal metrics to decide whether the guy is any good or not and they won't talk about them openly, so they have to rely upon slivers of data and from them, wring bizarre conclusions. Women love to think that they've figured out a guy, which means that the guy has to have something to figure out, which means that women MUST make situations more complicated than they really are. This tendency goes hand in hand with women's perverse love of drama. And women love drama because it's "interesting" or "memorable", no matter how much stress it causes others, and no matter how unnecessary it all is.



Seriously. This is why a guy comes home from work and says, "Hi honey," and his wife complains that he doesn't love her anymore, because he said it in a tired tone of voice. The guy views his commitment to her as absolute, despite feeling tired; the woman views the commitment as forever in peril unless the guy performs certain actions, like a trained seal.

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Jeremiah21

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Ask me anything you ever wanted to know about dating a Christian woman but are afraid to ask
Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 05:24 AM

Thanks for asking.



The goal of the book is to provide individuals with information regarding the courting process. It will help men and women alike identify the godly character they should be seeking in a mate.



Oftentimes we choose marriage partners based on their physical appearance, financial status and other worldly attributes. Jesus has other standards for mate selection.



The book will also explore the pros and cons of Internet dating.

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Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 05:34 AM

I am not sure why other women place photos where they appear to look depressed, angry or afraid. I know I wouldn't because first impressions are the lasting ones!

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Ask me anything you ever wanted to know about dating a Christian woman but are afraid to ask
Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 05:41 AM

Because the Lord says in his word "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and favor from the Lord." Men should do the pursuing in relationships not the woman.

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Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 05:44 AM

Women may appear to be very dramatic because the Lord created us to be emotional creatures. Instead of being annoyed by our differences we both need to celebrate our uniqueness. If both men and women were alike in a relationship one of us would be unneccessary.

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