Author	Thread: 1st to Initiate
Admin	1st to Initiate Posted : 10 Sep, 2010 04:52 AM Maybe this question has already been asked, bu are men turned off when women initiate contact? Is there a difference between the wink and the e-mail. Is this an age thing? As an older woman, the unwritten rule "back in the day" was to wait for the man to initiate contact. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	1st to Initiate Posted : 10 Sep, 2010 09:10 PM I doubt it's a personal thing. The vast majority of women really don't like sending messages. Then again, the only guys that like it are the ones who can consistently get responses. Like most things in life, it gets easier the more you do it. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	1st to Initiate Posted : 10 Sep, 2010 09:45 PM I'm old fashioned, and want the guy to initiate. But online, I don't see how sending the first message or wink is any different than just being friendly to a guy you've just met at church/school/work. You know, "Hi, how are you? I'm Beth...what's your name?" Just throw the line out, and see if he bites. If not, oh well...no real loss. If he does take the bait, though, he can initiate the rest of the relationship. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	1st to Initiate Posted : 11 Sep, 2010 10:23 AM You're back!:applause: :peace::peace: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	1st to Initiate Posted : 11 Sep, 2010 09:17 PM Yep Mark, I'm back! I missed this great group of folks too much to stay away for any longer...now I just have to figure out how to budget my time so that I don't let it take over my life. :rolleyes: Post Reply
View Profile History	1st to Initiate Posted : 13 Sep, 2010 08:45 AM A Mark...I wasn't meanin you silly...I was blushin at the tought of another Gent... Hey welcome back BCGal...:waving: Back to the Topic...I'm old fashioned to...and a lil shy when I'm atracted to a Gent...Go figer...Bold in the WORD of the Lord and Shy in Initiation of contact...xo Post Reply

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