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Admin	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 08:58 PM You get to talking to a woman and you think you're really getting to know each other and you think they like you but you're not sure. But then they just stop writing or if they do write they just give you a one liner or so? It's so annoying. I haven't been able to find anyone really interested in me who actually keeps carrying on a real conversation and really wants to get to know each other. Seems like some women on here just like being chased by tons of guys but they never really give you a real chance. I dunno, I dunno if there is anyone for me anymore. I guess I just gotta keep praying for God to send the right one into my life. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 06:33 PM I agree whole heartedly, but I try to concentrate on who God is and not my problem, its very hard. Post Reply
happyjer2911 View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 05:20 PM The issues happen to both parties. Both sides are feeling that the IMs are not getting anywhere. I know this is a dating site, but friendships dont happen over the internet or over night. I would not give up the first, second, or third time. Women can think they are to good to talk to some men. I want to say that they are wrong. Their is no harm in writeing back and kindly saying that you are not interested in the other party. We have to be able to stand on our own two feet. The Lord always guides his children that ask. If you dont ask about a certain person, God can not give you an answer. I agree that both parties need to be asking questions that matter, and not just want they did that day. Post Reply
RenewedReborn View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 08:52 AM I agree with some of the other posts. I think that some men and women are just content with others writing to them without any real substance in their responses. I had it to happen to me on a few occasions, where he just stops writing, I have done the same thing on a few occasions, when I should have just sent a response that I wasnt interested anymore. You live and learn, and try not to take everything to heart and move on, sometimes its easier said than done. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 02:43 PM Yeah... I've been guilty of not replying either. I feel like a jerk because I find myself never feeling like I've found a woman who's everything I want and need. I guess the truth is I honestly haven't let God take the reigns fully and allow him to bring the right woman into my life. I keep trying to jump into relationships but nothing ever works out. I eventually find something that makes me unhappy about it, etc, but also my relationships have been long distant ones so they never work out. Been praying for God to send the right woman into my life in his timing. I pray he sends someone who lives close to me too. Post Reply
RenewedReborn View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 08:54 PM I've been known to jump ship when "I" feel things are not right in the relationship or if "I" think that the other person is ready to go. God will send the right person your way, although sometimes it does seem as if other's get their blessings sooner than later. Lets just keep the faith that God will bring His promises to fruition. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 11:04 PM Yeah...I do that too. Like I feel like I can't trust anyone. I always feel as if no one thinks I'm good enough. It really is hard to find a faithful and honest mate. I just hope and pray that God sends me someone who will love me the way I need to be loved and be faithful, etc. I've gotten my hopes up more times than I care to admit but I'm trying to keep my heart open incase I do happen to find love... Post Reply
happyjer2911 View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 27 Aug, 2010 11:28 AM Reborn, You are so right. Cool, God will find you the right person. The other person is not going to be perfect. i would settle for what God wants you to have. Now for me, I have to make sure that when I do somthing that it is GOds will and not mine. I too only want what God wants. I would keep looking. And what does close mean to you?, Cool Is is miles or states? :ribbit: Post Reply
RenewedReborn View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 27 Aug, 2010 09:12 PM @happy, are you saying how close the other person has to live away from me? hmmm, I guess I would say not more than 100 miles away, although I never dated anyone that far from me, but at least its driving distance away :rolleyes: Post Reply
RenewedReborn View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 27 Aug, 2010 09:28 PM @Cool, its a process that you have to go through in learning about yourself, what you need from a relationship and what you are willing to tolerate, and can you be in a relationship without loosing your true self in the process. In the past I had lost a little of myself, with getting my hopes up, as you stated, and going in full-force with opening myself up. I understand now that I have to guard my heart to the point of not letting the other person know absolutely everything about me - my fears, my past, everything. You can still open yourself up, just not to the point of if they left you for whatever reason, it would destroy you emotionally. Know who you are in Christ. You can still feel emotional about the situation, but it should not consume you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does this happen to anyone else? Posted : 28 Aug, 2010 02:23 PM Yeah, I get what you're saying. I'm trying to mainly focus in God and me though, so that goes with what you're talking about too I think. I honestly still need to be happy in myself and not expect a woman to make me happy. Although I gotta say someone I'm talking to right now really does make me happy, she's the most amazing girl I've ever talked to. I just pray and hope that our friendship turns into something a lot more, hopefully a long term relationship. :glow: Post Reply

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