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Hey Guys... Please help me out and give your input on the following...
Posted : 26 Jul, 2010 10:16 PM

If you met a woman here on CDFF or any other dating site but did not meet in person.

You both fell for each others heart mind and moral ethics. You both clicked shared much

laughter together and such and so forth...



Then the woman shares with you she is self conscious of her physical appearance as she is

swollen due to a surgery she had and over weight due to meds she's taking and now has scars

due to that same surgery she had. Would that change your mind about her? Would you still

want to meet he her love her?

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Hey Guys... Please help me out and give your input on the following...
Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 05:36 PM

Wow!!! Thank you all so very much for your input...



First let me say... This was an open question... Some how y'all thought it was directly related to me...



Just to let y'all know the pic's on my profile are current; June and July of 2010. I do need to say this has opened my eyes on how even "Christians" view people.



I think if God has put two people together by His design and His leading via online, gas station, at the market, in a mall, at school, or even work... It seems to me the person would be so beautiful in each others eyes if it was truly a fit from God as that is how each would see each other; through Gods eyes.



Have any of you known a most good looking man/woman and they are crass or rude or just self absorbed?? Then all of a sudden they don't seem half as attractive as you once thought at first sight or first meeting??



Its the same the other way around... Have you ever met someone who you normally would not give much thought about but once they started to talk to you; you suddenly wanted to continue to get to know that person as they made you laugh from your gut or their heart was so kind and pure it melted yours? Suddenly you see this person as beautiful??



That my friends is seeing a person through their heart; through Gods eyes!!!



Now; with this being said I do have a sincere serious prayer request that I will be posting in a few... I hope y'all read it and sincerely pray for me, as I will be praying for all of you.



God bless you always my brothers and sisters.



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Posted : 8 Aug, 2010 01:42 PM

Am I too late to answer your question? Hee hee. The inside counts. Let me tell you a true story. I will try to be brief. Years ago, one of my high school classmate broke down during class and the teacher had to stop class and talk with girl who was troubled. She said she does not know what to do with this boy who had crush on her for six years. We were months away from graduation from high school. She couldn't decide. So my teacher wanted us to listen to her advice for all of us. You can have a very handsome man but very ugly inside or you can have a very ugly man with a great heart but you can not have both.



So the girl who was in confusion thought over the advice and gave that ugly deaf man a chance and they went on dating for six years and then to my surprise, they got married! They have 3 wonderful children. That is because she learned what is more important. The inside counts.



I tried to debunk but could not. So, my advice for you to read what I said and you will know what to look for!



By the way I am Deaf and I can talk very well and read lips. I rather to find someone from her heart than the looks.

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